boofboofboof wrote:Linkat wrote:I agree with Montana. If you cannot afford it then is there some household chores that she would be better at - for example cooking, grocery shopping/laundry. Maybe you could split it according to what works best.
I see what you're saying. The problem is that she won't do any of those things, at least not on her own. She insists that I escort her on grocery shopping, and she hates cooking. The problem is that she just seems to eschew responsibility in the household.
I see your problem. Personally, I like doing the grocery shopping and doing it alone. I'm a grab what we need and get out kind of gal and others with me takes me twice as long. I also like things organized, so I do that. I pick up after myself as I go along, so my cloths and stuff are never all over the place. I love cooking, so I do lots of the meals. I have a large vegetable garden and get a nice harvest of veggies that last all year. I can and freeze my veggies, so that is hard work.
As others have said, when you hire a housekeeper, thinks need to be picked up and out of the way and there's constant picking up to do every day along with dishes and laundry. The nice thing about having a housekeeper is that you don't have to worry about dusting, vacuuming, washing floors, doing bathrooms, or changing beds. If you're lucky, you'll be able to find one that does windows and even laundry.
This would surely take a load off of you and as Slappy said, it's really not that costly, especially split between 2 people.