I FEEL MY HUBBY DON' T RESPECT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: I FEEL MY HUBBY DON' T RESPECT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is one thread that I will be monitoring closely.

His power over the talking ball got my attention.

HAH! Lash, that took me a full thirty seconds . . . but it was worth it!
[Oops, sorry! no I'm not, yes I am, oh hardly, but I am, flip you for it? okay. so there, yes I AM sorry. damn].


desiret0261, if you push people around, try to manipulate or play a little game with them,
if you want someone to DO something or BE something,
then you will always be frustrated and disappointed.

People can only be themselves.
All you can do is
ask questions, listen, watch, and learn what's going on for them, why they are how they are.

If your husband loves women ... that may be a very good thing.
If you have something nice to observe, or say, about men ... then let your love shine through, also!

Respect is when people listen to each other, and want to know everything,
and they STILL be themselves just as they are.

Nice observation, Lash.

Thank you.

<I hope she will tell us more...>

How about telling him, "I feel hurt when you do that?" How does he respond?

He sounds like a jerk!

Desire
Would you mind typing with lower case letters. Typing with all caps is considered yelling.

hey, talk to him maybe go on more family outings just you him and your new born, let him feel satisfied with what he has. Maybe simply give him a nudge if you think he's doing something you don't agree with let him know how you feel, what you will put up with and what you wont, maybe knowing this he'll respect you more and not cross your boundaries.

Literalism, gotta love it.