aidan wrote-
Quote:I'm (not) exactly sure to what you may be referring. What price? I mean, I know what I think, but I want to be clear on what exactly it is that you think.
From "What price?" I assume I'm correct to insert the "not". If not, it's not clear what you mean.
I don't think anything. I observe and comment if what I observe engages my interest. It would be a tautology to say that in this case I am interested because my replying is already saying that.
From what I have observed, and I do not expect the immediate future to offer much in the way of evidence of "change", and that to which I was referring as a result of observations over many a long and weary walk through woe, is the general, all-round, almost comprehensive trials and tribulations to which men are put in order to obtain that which Darwin says, deconstructing him a bit, we were got here for. One of our primary drives no less, and, when we are done with the boring primary drives such as chomping through the nutrient bed and attendent necessities and running away from lions, an indignity visited upon many a high-born Roman, and have the thermostat correctly aligned with our comfort zone, it comes into prominence and rears itself up above its siblings by a good head and shoulders.
Now such a thing is a sitting duck and it is well known in evolution theory that sitting ducks get taken advantage of so what would be so surprising if there wasn't a mean, sneaky organism charging over the odds to pot it.
And particularly when the demand never slackens and it's easy to do. It certainly looks easy--"
pray, my dear, quoth my mother,
have you not forgot to wind up the clock?------
Good G**! cried my father etc etc (see page one of Tristram Shandy where Sterne is describing Tristram's departure station. The POOF point.) It might be that Mr Jefferson's moral compass would never have pointed at Pro Choice with the President's signed name on it. It wouldn't make sense otherwise after his remark about Sterne.
And that's just the normal daily grind biological demand which is kept aflame by our media. I'm at the embers you have to blow hard on stage.
There's a social demand as well. Which applies to both sides. "My husband and I---" stuff.
The trials and tribulations I spoke of take many forms, some quite extreme, although in England we generally just keep our heads down. The best way to describe them would be anything W.C. Fields would have laughed at. Cooking say, or being seen out with a woman. Those sort of things can be habit forming and become to seem perfectly natural so it's best never to start on them. An elderly doctor I knew told me that when I was sniffing the air which goes to show how valuable it can be to go in pubs and to keep doing. And don't think for one moment that I have no experience of advantage being taken of my primary drives.
And of course we do get something out of it. Most of us are a bit shamefaced though concerning the matter and only the lowest, commonest types of men such as those I mix with are prepared to discuss it with honesty and detachment.
BTW- it is impossible for me to drive anybody away from anything. So you've lost your money. Send it to an orphanage.
They can take themselves off but I can't drive them away. I can say boo to a goose can't I?
I invited aidan back on here last week on a Trivia thread where she mentioned an experience in church. As I know how well she can write I was hoping she would tell us about it. She also mentioned that it is Setanta who has driven her away.