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Why is it that when we have oral sex, does he like it so much, and why is it that it's like when he orgasms that it appears he enjoys that more then when we have sex? The other thing I wish I could do for him is swallow. Is this something that I am the only one that has trouble with doing? I've talked to some of my friends about this. They say they don't even think about it, and just let go down? Am I doing something wrong that he likes this more then sex, or is it that we just don't do it as much that he finds it to be like a treat?

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If you really, really enjoy strawberry cheesecake, does that mean you don't like a vanilla malt? (Substitute favorite desserts of your choice, really hard to come up with anything that doesn't have a double-entendre waiting to happen!) BOTH can be enjoyed and can be enjoyable.

As for the rest, do whatever you're comfortable with. If you're not comfortable, don't do it. Meanwhile, make sure you get enough out of all of this yourself -- your posts here have been rather oriented on making him happy.

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Your post sent a flush of worldwide nostalgia for the Clinton years.
"I did not have sex with that woman", Clinton dixit. It seems he also liked it "more than sex".

I, personally, prefer what you call "sex".

As for troubles swallowing, I'm sorry I can't be of any help. Lack of experience, you know?

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He makes me so so happy, He's understanding, and gentel. He's the guy that every girl would want. If im having a bad day he's my bestfriend to cry on, if im having a great day he's my besftriend to have fun with. I couldn't ask for anyone better. He is always asking me what I want, if he's doing things right, or if He can do thing differently to make it better for me. He's so great!

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did anyone see the play" Let my people Cum?

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You made me remember... Once I was with a woman and I almost didn't realize I came... since the girl drank every single drop of me. Awsome! Why do we like it so much? Maybe because we like to take intimacy to the limit, maybe because we've watched too much porn, or maybe there's some sort of a democratic reason: we swallow when we're down on you, then we like you to swallow when you're down on us. Who knows... Anyway, it's just priceless...

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to me, regular sex is always better, but not always possible because of where you are. Getting head is a VERY pleasant alternative.

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The orgasm is more intense for me from getting head.

And it's enhanced even further when I can watch my "Hanson" dvd at the same time.

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Nicole_8 wrote:

Why is it that when we have oral sex, does he like it so much, and why is it that it's like when he orgasms that it appears he enjoys that more then when we have sex? The other thing I wish I could do for him is swallow. Is this something that I am the only one that has trouble with doing? I've talked to some of my friends about this. They say they don't even think about it, and just let go down? Am I doing something wrong that he likes this more then sex, or is it that we just don't do it as much that he finds it to be like a treat?

Oral sex is different in that it is only about one person's enjoyment. He doesn't have to worry about what he is doing for you at that point in time so it is easier for him to just concentrate on what he is feeling.

Swallowing isn't that big of a deal as long as you are prepared to deal with the results in a different way. A tissue conveniently placed works well. What not to do is make gagging sounds and then rush off to the bathroom where you continue to make gagging sounds until the toilet flushes.

If he enjoys it that much then you are doing it right. Now the real question is do you enjoy it when he does it for you? If not, he needs some direction.

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If you're a newb to swallowing, get a glass of water handy beforehand as a "chaser."

-Brought to you by Slappy Doo Hoo, adamant on recruiting as many swallowers as possible.

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Speaking of swallowing I heard that the deposit of cum in a womaans vagina and maybe other places but in the main place there is a secret formula for cum that actually causesa woman to feel greatly relaxed.Notjust from the fun physical exertion of the sex act and then cumming yourself but the ingredients for cum have other very stabilizing carecteristics for those who eat from down below...So says my friend Crystal the physic.

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nicole, when you have oral sex, is it you on him or are you pleasuring one another?

I am assuming the former, otherwise, you sure would not be complaining.

Another question is, don't you enjoy receiving oral sex?

It is no secret (at least not to me being bi) that men and women love receiving oral sex, assuming the giver is proficient.

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rodbogey wrote:

You made me remember... Once I was with a woman and I almost didn't realize I came... since the girl drank every single drop of me. Awsome! Why do we like it so much? Maybe because we like to take intimacy to the limit, maybe because we've watched too much porn, or maybe there's some sort of a democratic reason: we swallow when we're down on you, then we like you to swallow when you're down on us. Who knows... Anyway, it's just priceless...

Because one is down on a female, "how would they have to swallow?" I mean it should all go down her but.

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About Oral Sex:

It is the sperm that fills the mouth?

Could a female get pregnant that way?

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ConstitutionalGirl wrote:

About Oral Sex:

It is the sperm that fills the mouth?

Could a female get pregnant that way?

How old are you?

Women don't get pregnant, the stork brings babies.

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Incoherent.

ConstitutionalGirl wrote:

Because one is down on a female, "how would they have to swallow?" I mean it should all go down her but.

ConstitutionalGirl wrote:

About Oral Sex:

It is the sperm that fills the mouth?

Could a female get pregnant that way?

It would take a contortionist.

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Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:

ConstitutionalGirl wrote:
About Oral Sex:

It is the sperm that fills the mouth?

Could a female get pregnant that way?

How old are you?

Women don't get pregnant, the stork brings babies.

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Interesting....

I think most of the guys I've been with like both ways of getting off. Seems that sometimes one way is better than the other for them, but none seemed to like one more than the other in general. I can see why oral sex could feel better - just think of how much more versatile a mouth is! Then again, sex is more snuggly (usually) - more body contact.

Interesting the idea of intimacy. I feel like oral sex is more personal. I would sooner have sex with a guy than give him head - I mean, earlier in the relationship.

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ConstitutionalGirl wrote:

Because one is down on a female, "how would they have to swallow?" I mean it should all go down her but.

I believe we have a winner for the "A2K Sentence of the Year" award.

Congratulations, ConstitutionalGirl! Please step forward and accept your trophy.

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If a female is on top, and gets head, then whoever gives head that would have to swallow.

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