Jes as usual hit the nail on the head.
However, I honestly can't believe this guy at 60 really believes a 22 year old female wants to be romantically invovled with him.
The delusion is strong in this one. In more ways than one.
I think the expression "there's no fool like an old food" applies to this scenerio.
To the OP, you feel like you "take care of all her needs" because you've spent $3K over more than a year buying her lunch, snacks, smokes, Midol
That's like 10 bucks a day.
So you've given her another $4K. A 22 year old probably thinks that's a lot. Feel lucky she isn't older in that regard. She would have taken you for a lot more.
Is it just sex you want from her? You're willing to, at 60 years old, to quit your job, move across country for that?
Have you noticied that 60 year old men, a few years from, or at retirement age, aren't exactly being hired for anything?
Also, and this should be no surprise, your health, general well being, are on the brink of that inevitable downhill slide where every month brings exciting new things to deal with.
She's 22 for Christs sake man! You seriously think she want to have sex with someone old enough to be her grandfather? You really think she's not dating, having sex with men her age?
Have a little dignity man. You're embarrassing yourself.