Peck On Guy Friend's Lips Cheating?!

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Hi, so the other week I was at a party with my friends but wanted to leave earlier cause I wasn't in the mood for partying anymore and started missing my boyfriend. I had called my mom to pick me up, who when she arrived at the location was already waiting for me ten minutes to come out. I said goodbye to all of my friends who tried to convince me to stay and rushed to the exit, where there were other friends of mine I said bye to. One of them was really upset that I was leavin, so a friend of my guy's friends said Aw give him a kiss. And I was kinda annoyed at this point and in a hurry that I just huffed and gave him a one second peck on the lips and said bye. My boyfriend is sweet and sensitive and had bad experiences in his past relationship, I'm scared to tell him and didn't wanna tell him at first because I didn't think it's a big deal since I'm not sexually involved or attracted to my friend. I genuinely feel terrible. PS. : This happened in Germany where I was visiting but my boyfriend and I live together in England. When I was gone he watched porn once which made me really mad that's why I decided not to tell him about this. But I love him so so much.

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@MinnieVP,

neither of you were cheating and neither of you should be mad at the other.

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@Linkat,

Not cheating and for crying out loud don’t share with boyfriend unless you are a drama queen.

Also, it’s none of your business if he watches porn. You may not like it, but it’s not your business, however much you want it to be.

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@chai2,

Isn't that a bit extreme saying that the bf watching porn is none of her business?

Yes its well established that watching porn is not cheating, but still, they are in a relationship... the boundaries of a relationship have to be negotiated, with a bit of give and take.

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@mystikmind,

mystikmind wrote:

Isn't that a bit extreme

No, nope, nein, non and negartory.

No more than someone telling the other they are not allowed to masturbate, have their own pritave sexual thoughts, or that they must tell them every sexual fantasy they have, whether they approve or not.

All that is private.

Private as in not required or even good to be shared.

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@chai2,

chai2 wrote:

No more than someone telling the other they are not allowed to masturbate,
All that is private.

Private as in not required or even good to be shared.

Funny I was going to comment about masturbation too - that this is a similar private thing. It is up there with using the bathroom - there are just some things there is no need to share.

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@Linkat,

Well I'd have to give the caveat that if it was something like child pornography, or porn where someone was actually (and not just acting like) being forced they were doing something against their will. I'm including things like beastiality, where consent cannot be given.

It also isn't cool if someone is somehow making their partner watch too, if they don't want to.

But watching porn (in most cases) is no different to me than getting a better visual and auditory experience of what a person was thinking about in their heads, and just as private.

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