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Mon 18 Apr, 2005 08:41 am
Thank you so much Phoenix for responding to me.....I know I will destroy this marriage if I don't let go of his past. Do you honestly believe a man of a past can remain faithful to one women? I feel like I have to be perfect for him even though he does not make me feel this way.
People can change. If he wants to be faithful, he can. That's the beauty of being human. We have the choice to do what we want. If you don't trust your husband, you are in for a long, long unhappy marriage.
I was unfaithful to more than one wife and girlfriend when I was younger and stupider and was a pretty much like a bull.
I have now been married faithfully (though no less horny) to the same woman for going on 20 years so it can happen.