Hi all,
6 months ago I came out of a 10 year relationship and after a couple of awkward one night stands I find myself meeting a really nice woman. She's a similar age, intelligent, pretty, funny and we get on really well. What could be better I ask you. However, (and isn't there always a however ?), I've arranged to meet up with her 3 times now and each time she's either cancelled (with a nice apology and a request for another date) or we've not quite met up due to being with different groups of friends and missing each other despite me sending numerous texts telling her where I am. You know, I don't know if it's just me, but if you arrange to meet up with someone surely you should make the effort and be there. I spoke to a mutual friend about it and she said that this girl can be "flighty". Hmm...
Last week I was supposed to be meeting her and the same thing happened, I sent texts, she texted back to say that she would meet me later and then nothing. At 3 in the morning I get a text saying that her phone has died and that she was upset to have missed me. She knew where I was, why didn't she come looking for me ? She was only a couple of pubs away.
Now it gets complicated.. I had pretty much given up on her on Friday night and was asked out by a very girl who I work with. Being annoyed and seeing as we really didn't have a relationship, I agreed and I ended up back at her place. Now this girl is very (and I mean very) keen and I feel terrible. She wants me to go round all the time, meet her during work, etc., etc. I don't want that sort of heavy relationship but she thinks I do. I don't want to be going down that road with someone I'm don't have a lot in common with, but I don't want to spend my life waiting in pubs for a girl who never arrives...
Please, please, please, tell me what to do
Thanks