ossobuco wrote:<I look forward to this>
1. This labeling thing is not based on facts and is theoretically unsound.
If there was any such thing as a homosexual or a heterosexual in nature humans would have discovered these terms long ago. The fact that no other human civilisation has any word for such things is a clear pointer that the entire concept of sexual orientation is invented by the modern west.
Of course people keep pointing that out even on this board. But there are men with vested interests who will continue to label and isolate men. For them it is their basic duty to further the 'heterosexual agenda'.
(homosexuals, i.e. feminine males who desire males, are also an integral part of this agenda, since they have a lot of power within the homosexual space, which only a heterosexual society will give them)
That men typically have a sexual need for both men and women is not a hidden fact, inspite of the incessant propaganda by the heterosexual world.
For those who insist on proof, there is ample proof in the wild and in our past. Societies that are largely untouched by westernisation even today acknowledge this fact, and sex/ affairs between 'straight' men are quite universal here -- whether openly or behind the scenes.
In a heterosexual society the oppression of sexual bonds between men (particularly straight men) is so intense that is has completely gone under hiding, amongst the mainstream straight male society. And straight men (meaning 'masculine men', not 'heterosexual men') take on an artificial heterosexual identity. But that does not make these identities natural.
In these heterosexual societies, sex between men is confined to the homosexual ghetto (which is populated by feminine, third gender males). Even straight men who have no sexual attraction for women, do not want to pass over to the third gender space and in order to retain their straight status stick to a 'heterosexual' identity by keeping girlfriends (and advertising it) and suppressing their sexual need for men. Of course most straight men still have sex with men but it is very superficial, absolutely quiet, disguised and only when they get a hidden chance, which is rare. (Though in western societies some straight men are now joining the 'gay' space, but they live there like outsiders)
Therefore these identities are not real or natural. They have relevance only in a society, which is as repressive of male sexual bonds as the modern west. Furthermore, such identities have any relevance only in a mixed-gender society. In natural male-only and female-only societies still existing in most of the non-western world, such identities are meaningless.
It is easy for the protagonists of the heterosexual agenda to claim that men are basically heterosexuals, going by what is seen on the surface. In such a society we cannot determine the extent of sexual desire between men by a direct head count. The homosexual identity is not representative of the real bonds between men. It is representative of only a feminine male's desire for men.
By the way, the protagonists of the heterosexual agenda include not only those handful of males who are truly 'heterosexuals' but also the homosexuals (i.e. feminine/ meterosexual males who like males) who are also benefited under this system. The losers are of course the real straight men and the majority of real heterosexuals --- the transgendered males.
In such a scenario, we need to arrive at a realistic estimate through indirect methods. One of the best ways to measure the extent of male sexual need for men and their disinterest in women, is by measuring the pressure exerted by the society to:
1. Force men to bond sexually with women, and
2. Force men not to bond sexually with men
It's a simple logic. If heterosexuality (i.e. male need for long term bonding with women, and an abhorrence for male eroticism) is natural, you don't need any social pressures to bind them into this state. If such as system (of exerting pressure) is present it means that at least some men may not otherwise want to be heterosexual. But if the pressures are intense it is a clear pointer that there is a widespread and strong need amongst men to bond sexually with other men, and the sexual desire for females is not as widespread, strong and long lasting as it is made out to be. And that if this pressure is lifted heterosexuality will disappear.
You only have to look at the kind of social power and masculinity granted when a man proves his interest in women. It's phenomenal. And considering you don't have to do anything - just **** a girl, and the society gives you the 'manhood' status on a platter, something that men have coveted since they got together into societies.
Or look at the extent of hostility prevalent in the west against so-called 'homosexuality', to realise what they are up against. And look at how insecure they get when homosexuals get rights. After all, if it was only a question of a 2% to 10% of the population, those in power need not have been so jittery.
Thus if male sexual need for a male lover is an omnipresent quality, the concept of sexual orientation as well as the labels 'heterosexual', 'homosexual' & 'bisexual' are not only useless but also misleading. (Actually they serve a very important purpose for the heterosexual agenda.)