I think you have to be honest in your communications with all of the other people. Make it clear you are not interested in exclusive/relationships with any of them.
Men flirt, text and have sex with multiple women at the same time. No one thinks twice about it.
Have you ever been in a place in your life where you didn't want a committed relationship? I am in at a place now in life where I want a committed relationship, but there were times in my life where I just wanted to sleep around. If I am having casual sex without commitment... I cant really expect that my partners won't do the same.
Women at times enjoy casual sex too. That has nothing to do with prostitution.
Yes, it is absolutely "worth the risk"!
I am a happily heterosexual man (although completely accepting of other genders and orientations). I like sex. In fact I like sex a lot. I find that having sex increases my self-esteem. I am happy when I am having sex, and I find the events leading up to sex (flirting, dating, suspense, kissing, undressing ...) to be a lot of fun. At a certain age, I was happy to have to casual sex as it came.
You may be surprised that lots of people (men and women) feel this way.
People have sex. For most American adults, the risk is fully worth it, it is actually pretty unlikely that anyone you might have sex with would have HIV (you are far more likely to die from a car crash then from HIV). Any time I had casual sex, I did use a condom, which does lower the risk even further.
sleeping around is fun...
Everyone thinks they're on the winning side of statistics until they lose the bet with fate.
Quote:Everyone thinks they're on the winning side of statistics until they lose the bet with fate.
That is true every time you get in a car... and you are far more likely to die in a car accident.
Those people who don't have sex, don't drink, don't eat red meat or processed sugar are going to be very surprised when they find they still die in the end... of nothing.
Seriously though, if a person is not in a committed relationship, why not enjoy random nights (and days) with a warm willing. body (or 2 or even 3).
Sturgis wrote:Seriously though, if a person is not in a committed relationship, why not enjoy random nights (and days) with a warm willing. body (or 2 or even 3).
*stealthly looks about
*slowly raises a hand
Nevermind. Inclusion into the sex addicts club requires much more of a sense of humour than you have shown in your posts.
You are amusing sometimes Livinglava.
- Sex is not poison.
- Sex is not causing me harm.
- I don't worry worry about having sex.
- I don't feel I am missing out on pleasure when I have sex.
- I am living long and healthy.... and enjoying sex.