Sat 29 Dec, 2018 11:05 am
I have a really good friend that I have a crush on and I've seen him in the changing room (in the gym) and he has a nice bulge. I don't know if he's gay but he's never had a girlfriend and doesn't talk to any girls. Although he doesn't seem the type of person to be gay. How should I find out if he's gay or not and if he is how can we get together.
Does your friend know that you are gay?
That makes it more awkward, doesn't it. I think I would start with that... letting him know that you are gay before telling him you are attracted. That way you can gauge.
It is often difficult turning a friendship into a romantic partner under any circumstance.