Re: Am I? If So... Help Me
K heres the deal..Im 13 and 125 (give or take a few) am i overweight im 5'1".
Barely overweight. Be active, eat wisely and you'll shape up just fine.
I have flubber and i try to work out and i try to eat well but my problem is that i have a high metabolism.
High metabolism means that your body will burn the fuel (food) you take in faster than the average Joe.
I need help because this year im going into high school. i see all my friends stomachs and i see all these pretty clothes that i love that would never work with my stomach.
So find clothes that look good on you
. You wil never
have your friend's stomach.
Hear me? Never.
She has it, and it was put there as "hers".
I have a friend who has the most amazing calves...I will never have them no mattter how hard I work at them. Genetics were good to him.
If I constantly compared myself to others, I'd never get what I want out of what I was given, biologically speaking.
people say im pretty but if i understand boys like skin and bones.
I'm a "boy" (a 30 year old one), and I don't like skin and bones.
Physically, I like a girl who is in shape, takes care of herself and feels good in her skin. Muscle tone is important to me. Thin is nice, but the crystal meth'd out look only works in photo shoots for D & G.
But i know what ur thinking who cares what boys think. well i know that but it makes me feel better about myself.
And therein lies your problem.
If your happiness is hinged upon which boy or how many boys like you, you are destined for failure in a relationship and in life.
I was once hunted by one of the top scouts for Ford models when I was younger...I appealed to many girls and women.
Well, I'm now 30, and I haven't seen Mr. Kelly Streit for a while. I don't suppose they want me anymore.....
Point being: You looks and sexual appeal will change over time. The quality and quantity of boys giving you attention will vary as well. Don't confuse basic attention with positive attention.
If you only feel good about yourself when a boy is staring at you, then when that appeal is gone, so is that good feeling.
You need much much more than that to find happiness, and you need something that will make you feel good when you look hot, or if you are physically maimed in a car accident.
i have noticed that i have been more grumpy and more like annoyed easier. and i want to stop....please help me
We can't help you with this.....