Wed 19 Dec, 2018 10:47 pm
So I recently started dating a girl I really liked and had a crush on for years, and we are sexually really compatible and its honestly been going really great. I really care about her and when we have sex its good, and we're loving and everything. But she also likes when someones aggressive and treats like a sub or a "little slut" and we talked about consent all that and comfort zones. And normally I really enjoy doing it too, but for some reason I can't fully bring myself to do it and I want. And I know if we do it once it'll be good but every time I try, I just kind of go back to the routine. And I don't know how to get over this hurdle. And we are intimate a lot, like a lot so sometimes a change of pace or roles is nice and fun. BTW we've only been dating for 3 months and its long distance so we don't see each other every day.
Any suggestions or how I can get in the zone
What is the “it” you talk about?
Being more aggressive in your lovemaking?
Or does she want even more? (Really rough sex)
Whatever, it needs to be mutual. So it has to be agreeable to both of you.
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