Sun 2 Dec, 2018 04:14 am
Ok, so I’ve had a crush on a boy for quite some time now, but as I was just getting over him, I began to get some mixed signals from him, some weeks ago he started to talk to me a lot more, we barely talked before, now we basically talk everyday, one day while we me and some friends were working on a group assignment he asked me to help him with something and while I was helping him I think I heard him say “so, are you a bottom?” (I am openly gay with my friends so I just assumed he may have heard something about me being gay while I was talking to them) I could have just misheard anyways, when I was about to ask if he could repeat what he had said a girl started to talk with him, and as I had panicked I just walked away.
Recently he has been complimenting me and has been trying to cheer me up (I think he tries to cheer me up cause I often have a depressed ass expression lol) I would straight up ask him if he is gay, but I fear that if I ask him he might feel attacked or insulted because idk people get offended by that. On the other hand he might be flirting hard and I’m not even noticing, like, he has called me handsome and beautiful, then yet again it could have been as a joke.
Another thing to consider is that I’ve heard he has a a girlfriend so he might just be straight and just be a a really nice person.
I’m just lost at this point, what should I do?
His intentions are not clear, so be very careful.
You say you talk to him everyday, yet you don’t know if he is in a relationship? (with anyone)?
Get to know him better before expressing a desire to be any more than project work friends.
Can't you just ask him about his girlfriend? I think that if he is gay, there is a chance that he will tell you that he's into boys. Otherwise, if he talks about his girlfriend you will know that he is straight. There is a chance he is Bi tho..