How should a guy treat his girlfriend?

As long as the girl makes the sandwiches correctly and fetches the right kind of beer, she should be safe.

You need to be more specific...
there are obvious behaviors that are unaccpetable. But what are bothersome to you?

I'd say it depends entirely on the girl in question
e.g. i couldn't stand being with anybody who wasn't affectionate - i'm just an uber-affectionate person and like being hugged and touched all the time
Some of my best mates just find that really clingy and have dumped guys because of it
I have a pretty dirty mind for a girl, most of my mates r guys, and i find toilet humour as funny as they do. Talking dirty and extrovertly flirting (when it's reeeally OTT because you're joking) just strike mas as part of friendship. My best friend wouldn't be caught dead with guys like these

You're a bad person.

Who is?

lol im just joking with bekaboo.

But in all seriousness, to the person who started this thread. How deeply involved are you two? How old are you both? These types of questions all affect how a girlfriend is treated. I would treat someone who has been my girlfriend for 6 months different from a girl that I've only been on a couple dates with. In short, Give us details

Oh I love this question - and it's so EASY to answer.

A guy should treat the girl he is dating like the goddess that she is.

He should wash her feet - and paint her toenails for her, if that's what she wants.

He should worship her undeniably. Being at her beck-n-call. Always making sure she wants for nothing.

He should give her the remote control while watching tv.

He should A-L-W-A-Y-S strive for the big " O " ....always making sure he rings her bell multiple times. Allowing her to be in full control - reverse cowgirl - or any other style - if that is what she wants.

And last but not least - A guy should always - ALWAYS - ALWAYS be the one to make the sandwich. And get his own dang beer out of the frig while he's at it.

Ok. Now can I list how a woman should treat her man?

By all means, wise one. Please enlighten us.

Righteo. Well there a couple paths I could take here at this point. And it is rather difficult because I'm debating if I should just restate what you put and say that she should never expect any of these things. But I'll try to go original like KFC. Ok.

This is an equally easily answered question.

A girl should treat the guy she is dating like the only man alive.

She should be around him at all times unless he snaps his fingers, and she should instantly disappear.

She should disappear to either the kitchen or some messy room and make it a nice environment for her man.

She should always have dinner ready at a set time without him asking and at the exact point in the day when he is hungry.

She should pay for dinner if they go out, because she couldn't accomplish this task herself earlier.

She should never take him to get her nails done or any other feminine things he doesn't want to be involved in. She should just be there next to him when he wants her, looking nice.

The remote control? She shouldn't know a tv exists.

Ahh, I couldn't help it you sucked me in.

She should always fake the big "O" just to make him feel special, even though he doesn't really care that much, it makes a man feel good. Doggystyle or reverse cowgirl, whatever his favorite is.

And last but certainly not least, she should be the world's best sandwich maker. This sandwich should only take her a few seconds to whip up and should taste like it was handed down from the gods. And the beer should be in the freezer a good ten-fifteen minutes before served.

Maybe I should've added...
And I like long walks on the beach.
Any takers?...

...anybody?

Chances are you are wrong, Independence, but we need specifics.

wow! I got a lot more responses than I expected! Well, I think I'm solving my problem...but I'll give some details anyway. We are both seniors in high school. We've been dating for 6 months. We've had one major fight that we've worked through, but other than that we don't fight at all.
He's a great guy, and he doesn't treat me bad as in physically harming me or anything like that, but I have just started to get the feeling that he doesn't appreciate me at all. He doesn't call me unless I ask him too, he blows me off sometimes in school, and he kinda treats me cruddy in front of his friends. In front of them he talks about me like I'm a bother to his life and that I'm so difficult to deal with. most of the time he's just teasing, but I'm not always sure, and neither are his friends. Most of his friends are my friends too, and I've talked to them, and they agreed that he shouldn't act like that. I have really tried hard to be cool about everything and let a lot of stuff go, but it's gotten to the point where he doesn't just treat me like in school, but outside of school too. I really care about him, and i don't want to be controlling or difficult, but it kinda hurts when he treats me like he doesn't care about my feelings.

What am I wrong about?

He is being a teenage boy. Which is hard because you are a girl who by nature, has matured faster than he has. Unfortunatly, there isn't much you can do, except put up with it or break up. He is still immature. I suggest breaking up since you will be leaving for college soon ( I assume) and high school relationships rarely last in college. Besides, wouldn't you like to meet a nice college man, or two or three.....who will treat you like a woman and not a girl?

Lol...college boys sound nice, and I have recently come to the conclusion that I probably need to break up with him because not only do i want to be treated better, but why try so hard to make a relationship work out that is not gonna last anyway. It's just really hard right now, because he's not just my boyfriend. we've been good friends for a long time, and if we break up, we may not talk anymore, and it would be soo hard to just shut him out of my life completely after he's been a part of it for so long...ya know? I don't WANT to break up, because as I said, I REALLY CARE ABOUT HIM!! but I feel like i have no other options. And as you pointed out, I either have to deal with it, or break up, and I don't think i can deal with it anymore.

I really don't like the fact that he is disrespectful towards you when others are around. That's a power thing and a bad one.

I think you should tell him you want to go back to being friends, the boyfriend/girlfriend thing is just not working out. Explain how you are going off in new directions and you will probably have a better and longer relationship if you just stay buds. If he really is a friend, he will accept the offer.

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In other words, his self-image and his sense of humor are both more important to him than your feelings are.

The kindness level administered is directly proportional to the female's skills at cooking pancakes naked.