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Mon 21 Mar, 2005 11:25 pm
So after almost a year of being very close with each other and dating and everything we have a big fight and I tell her I don't want her to come back anymore(to my place). She was very upset and left. I tried calling her a few days later and was apologizing (crawling back? w/e?) Anyways we finally talked a little bit over the next few days and agreed to talk about everything in person on a set day the next week. I called her a few more times to find out when and what we were doing and she didnt answer. The day we were supposed to sort everything out she didnt show up and didnt answer my calls that day or the next. I haven't talked to her at all for about a week or so and I'm not sure what to do. I know I should probably just forget about her, but I am rather torn. Any advice?
I have no idea of your ages or circumstances. Since she hasn't answered about talking, she doesn't want to talk, at least now. Perhaps later. For example, I wouldn't mind talking with some early people in my life, now that I am older, and I suppose they would enjoy talking with me, as we are now not impinging on each other's lives at all.
Maybe she will feel like talking after a while, but let that be her choice.
I don't think chasing her is of any value, she's left and apparently means it. It will do no good to simper around her.
In the meantime, consider honestly why she might have been aggravated, and see if you can learn from it. This is not to say that I think she is right, I don't know, and she might not be. But consider what happened as honestly as you can.
And then go on, and meet other people.
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