Confused

What seems to be the problem with sex?

no guy will hang with a girl with sex not available sooner or later.

It's not going to be easy. You sound asexual or aromantic (I am not a doctor - just, Google those terms). If he is neither, then it is going to be close to impossible to get a relationship to work to your mutual satisfaction.

I think most people (including most women) would feel the same. For me to be in a romantic relationship without sex would be torture.

I might consider being in such a relationship if I could have sex with other people... but I don't see how that would work. I would be having sex with one partner and not having sex with the other, the non-sexual partner would feel like nothing but a close friend.

If you are asking for an exclusive relationship with no sex... you are telling your partner that he needs to be abstinent. For most humans, this is not a reasonable request.

To love some one and want him to be committed only for you is not a bad thing but you also need to be fully committed as well. What would you think of him if he attend his need to make love with someone else while living with you.