What would you have meant?

“Sexted-texted-cheated” is all considered as one thing.

This person means:

You are the only one I’ve (done all these things with) behind my BF’s back.

There’s no information on what else ever done.

(Sure you want to start up something with this person?)

I’m not starting anything with anyone, this was from a message my fiancé receive and he is trying to play it off like she meant cheating with sexting.. I’m not buying it so just looking for other opinions

Side note he doesn’t think sexting is cheating lol

sexted = text-cheating

she's cheated on her bf by sexting/texting with two people

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when you and your bf/fiance first got together, did you discuss what you both consider cheating?

if not, sit down and do it now - definitely consider counselling around communication before proceeding with the relationship

don't assume you both agree on these things

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since there seems to be a pretty fundamental communication gap between the two of you, please be very sure that there is no chance of pregnancy

yup

that's what it means