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Wed 9 Mar, 2005 10:40 pm
I was looking though my email and found a nude picture of some chick that had been sent to my boyfriend. I'm really upset and hurt by it. He has always talked on chatrooms and he has gotten pictures from females before but I've never seen a nude one. Its very explicit. I was ok with the other ones because they seemed so innocent. I've asked him before why he feels the need to chat with other females online late at night while I'm asleep and he says its just innocent fun and he's bored. I need advice on what to do. He's workin and I dont know if I should just let it go or confront him on it ??????
Its probably a fake picture. I'll wager that he's been duped. You might try laughing at him!
I just need some clarification; why would you find a picture sent to him in your inbox? Or do you guys share the same email address? Anyway, if it does bother you, I suggest talking about it before the issue escalates.
We share a computer and a log in name. I bought the computer but he uses it most of the time. I use it for my online classes. Thanks for the advice
hmmm. that would bug me. i'd have a talk with him. i'd wonder what he chats with the girls about that they are sending him their pictures - nude or not. i don't suspect men are sending him pictures. chatting is fine, but when it crosses some imaginary boundary of flirting/relationships, that's not chatting anymore. better voice your concerns now then be consumed by suspicion or jealousy.
A relatioship is built on trust.. do you trust him?
I agree with the advice already in here. You need to talk to him as soon as you feel comfortable doing it. You don't want to let upset or bad thoughts start taking over when it could be resolved with a simple conversation. Don't be angry or intimidating when you talk to you him. Just tell him honestly of your feelings. Hopefully, he will learn more about you through that and things will improve.
What was the context of the nude pic? I ask because once when I was searching my spam folder for something legitimate that may have slipped through I was startled to see some spam with explicit pictures. It said something like "the photos you asked for", but it was just plain spam.
But definitely worth talking to him.
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