Of course all children are different.
As a rule, I've found with teenagers sampling the counter-culture that they embrace the glamour and the "wickedness" but are remarkably unaware of unfortunate results--until the results happen.
I regret the days when the school stood
in loco parentis and decisions on discipline were made on a case-by-case basis.
Unfortunately kids from "good families" often received kinder treatment than "vocational" students. When the sue mentality came into the picture, school systems were forced to codify discipline--one rule for all.
J_B. commented:
Quote:It's very sad, she's a nice girl who simply got screwed up with drugs.
She was also a "nice girl" who attempted to share her new hobby with other "nice girls".
With this in mind, I see why the high school policy includes handcuffs.
Also, many parents will smile indulgently and say , "All kids experiment with drugs." The handcuffs may convince the parents that getting stoned every afternoon (and finding the money to pay for the party) is serious business.