Re: My boyfriend doesn't like to celbrate vday...
kcroxyoursox wrote:its one of those things where he believes love should be celebrated every day and not on a designated day...
It's a cop out.
If his reasoning was valid, we wouldn't gather for family dinners, eat turkey & stuffing on Thanksgiving day because thanks for the bounty of this earth should be given every day. Or we wouldn't put up Christmas trees and sing Christmas carols or buy Christmas gifts in celebration of Christ's birth because that is something that should be celebrated every day. And on and on and on . . . .
Sure . . . love (just like everything else) can be "celebrated" every day, but Valentine's Day is special. It's a day we set aside each year to make the person we love feel special. Buying or making you a Valentine's Day card, and/or giving you a box of candy, or serving you breakfast in bed, or taking you out to dinner, or sending you flowers as a demonstration of his love is not that difficult. He just doesn't want to be bothered and he's feeding you a line of bull so that you won't be disappointed or hurt when he shirks his boyfriend duties on this special day. Oh well. He's only fooling himself. We know better.
I would be very hurt if my honey blew off Valentine's Day and expected me to accept a lame excuse: But honey, I love you every day.
YOU should still show him that you love him. Get him a nice Valentine's Day card and a big box of candy (or his favorite treat) and some cupid shorts.