Therapy

Well, we are finally going to try marriage counsiling for the first time next week. It's about time because I feel like I am going out of my mind. The more I try to act like a mature adult living in adult situations, the more child like my husband becomes. Every time I ask him to do or not to do something his reply is always "don't tell me what to do." I tell him, "you act like a child I'm gonna treat you like a child." It's a pitty that I hate him so much today figuring I will probably still be mad at him tommorrow night and tommorrow night is valentines day. For some reason last night went really well, we were at a party and he was being all cute and lovey dovey, and then this morning its like dr. jekal and mr. hyde. Sunday is my day to sleep in and be lazy if I feel like it. My mother was going to stop by around 12 and we were going to go out to lunch. My husband woke up early and insisted I get out of bed to start cleaning the apartment (our sunday ritual for some reason). I looked at the clock and it was only 9:30. I told him that I didn't feel like getting out of bed yet and that I would get up a little later. Apparently that wasn't good for him and he became obnoxious like a little child would. He keep poking me saying "get up get up get up get up...." over and over and when I had had enough of that he pulled the all the sheets and blankets off the bed. I am NOT a morning person and this really pissed me off. He also threw open the blinds and blasted the tv. He also assigned me to what I would be cleaning, when I told him that I would not be the one making the now destroyed bed, he told me that it was my fault that the bed was a disaster because I didn't get up when he told me to. He is like my brother and father all mixed into one person. I get the poking from him like my brother would do, and the assigning chores like my father would do.