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Mon 24 Jan, 2005 10:07 pm
me and my ex are supposedly on a break right now cause we were too busy to see eachother. Now, things are starting to get better but she still thinks nows not the time to get back, but shes basically impled wed like be friends with benefits, but we agreed not to see any1 else...so we r exclusive. So today i asked her if our promise still stands-she said for now yes, but she cant promise anything for the future...now im not gonna lie, im a lil paranoid, but should this response trigger any kind of worrying on my part. Or do u think she means she still wants to be exclusive...idk
Well Mr.Bob, it looks like your ex but still exclusive,
has opened several back doors to sneak out, if she
chooses to.
Chances are she will. So maybe this would be a good
time for you to start looking for someone more dependable.
I agree. Mr. Bob, to hang on to this situation is to hang on to wisps.
Your time, as sorrowful as you may feel it is for a while, is better spent getting reacquainted with yourself, getting some walking and talking to yourself in, and moving along.
Wait, can't you, for someone who thinks you're good, interesting, attractive, and wants to be with you?
It is so much better that way.
Hi Mr. Bob, I don't think you're paranoid at all....I'd worry too in this situation.
Sounds like she wants you to hang around while she makes up her mind.
I agree with Ossobuco, there are women out there who will treat you better than this. Find 'em! Good luck to you!
Any particular reason you want it to be exclusive?
Sorry, I just don't understand what you're after here. It seems pretty clear you're not going to get an exclusive relationship with this woman, so you should either settle for an open relationship or just leave it for dead. I wouldn't fool yourself into thinking that it will be exclusive. I think from the way you posted this that you realise that and just want our encouragement to do what you've already decided is the right action.
Go for it.
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