I’ve been seeing this girl for the past 4 months. It was going absolutely perfect. We got a long great. No fighting or arguing. We have met each other’s family and friends. The whole nine yards.
The only issue is, a few months (2) before we started seeing each other she just got out of a 3 year relationship. We talked about not moving too fast from the beginning and have done a ok job of doing that.
She just broke up with me with the reasoning that she is not ready for a serious relationship. I handled the breakup as well as I could have. Stating that I understand where she is coming from and all that.
I have just started the no contact period (5 days in). How long should I continue? Also, do you have any advice?
Good advice, and meanwhile why dont you suggest that you should both be open to seeing other people..... That will take the pressure off her.... or, if she does not seem to like that idea, you have the answer you want, she is yours, you just need to give her some space.