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Sat 15 Jan, 2005 04:07 pm
I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 yrs.and in the beginning i really wasn't concerned about what he watched on tv or what not. But now I cant even imagine him watching porn, i get so jealous and I feel like he wants to watch it because I don't do it for him anymore and that is the only way he will enjoy sex.
he doesn't watch it when I am around nor does he watch skinemax.
I feel like he wants to watch porn but doesn't want to make me upset if he does.
I guess because when i was really young i had this boyfriend who used to watch porn in front of me and he would actually tell me how nice and other things the womens vaginas were. and that made me feel bad about myself.
so now my bf has to deal with me being like this.
but my question really is. do you think he REALLY doesn't watch porn, or do you think he watches it any chance he can when im not around?
I just feel that why does my bf need to watch porn when he has me. its not like im telling him no when he wants sex.
What is that supposed to mean?
My problem with porn is that the profit margin has been in a steady decline the last few years with all the amateurs getting in....
i guess i need to seek some help then for this situation.
Maybe if he watched it after we met and still watched it, not stop watching it and all of a sudden yrs into the relationship he now wants to start watching porn then i wouldnt get upset. WHO KNOWS
i really feel like crap because i cannot accept this. i am not ugly so i don't know what my deal is. i think i need heavy medication to deal with this. i don't know, hypnotized?
i told him i wanted to pose for playboy and he got all mad, he doesn't want other men looking at my naked body, so i feel the same about porn, why look at other women having sex to get off? if its not there anymore its not there, then we need to break up. right?
You have to deal with the fact that guys like looking at other women, NO MATTER WHAT.
Doesn't matter how hot you are, how attracted he is, ect. He's going to check out other women.
Don't be insecure about it. It's one thing if he's blatant in front of you, but don't be upset only at the THOUGHT that he "might be watching porn."
ODontUwish wrote:i guess i need to seek some help then for this situation.
Maybe if he watched it after we met and still watched it, not stop watching it and all of a sudden yrs into the relationship he now wants to start watching porn then i wouldnt get upset. WHO KNOWS
i really feel like crap because i cannot accept this. i am not ugly so i don't know what my deal is. i think i need heavy medication to deal with this. i don't know, hypnotized?
i told him i wanted to pose for playboy and he got all mad, he doesn't want other men looking at my naked body, so i feel the same about porn, why look at other women having sex to get off? if its not there anymore its not there, then we need to break up. right?
a lot of the porn people could probably help you out with that heavy medication too....
I have a problem with porn too.
I can't find much "amputee porn," can anyone help?
Slappy Doo Hoo wrote:I have a problem with porn too.
I can't find much "amputee porn," can anyone help?
I know a girl in Georgia....
i guess i need to seek some help then for this situation.
Maybe if he watched it after we met and still watched it, not stop watching it and all of a sudden yrs into the relationship he now wants to start watching porn then i wouldnt get upset. WHO KNOWS
i really feel like crap because i cannot accept this. i am not ugly so i don't know what my deal is. i think i need heavy medication to deal with this. i don't know, hypnotized?
i told him i wanted to pose for playboy and he got all mad, he doesn't want other men looking at my naked body, so i feel the same about porn, why look at other women having sex to get off? if its not there anymore its not there, then we need to break up. right?
Calm down. You're seriously overreacting.
It's perfectly normal, after a few years of a monogamous relationship, to look for new ways to keep the spark alive. You two could try role-playing, erotic lingerie, sex toys, porn, lots of things. If that's what works for him, watch it together! It might give you a few new ideas, too!
It doesn't matter what gets either of you excited as long as you use it to enhance your sex life together.
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