Feeling Love and Hate at the Same Time

Reply Thu 7 Dec, 2017 04:30 am
I'm 24 years old and I'm in love with my female teacher, but
when I see her, I feel that I hate her. I'm the best student in my university, that's why all professors love me. I think that she also loves me, but it appears
that when she sees me, she feels annoyed with me. What should I do?

I think it's better to tell her I love her. I know that the relationship with the professor is not logical, But I want to assure her that I love her.
Reply Thu 7 Dec, 2017 06:47 am
You must respect this person's privacy and feelings. You have no right to demand she pay any kind of attention to you.

Besides, profs are not supposed to get involved with students.

It sounds like you get angry when you don't get your way. That, and your need to be adored by all your profs is a dangerous mix.

Please seek counseling for your extreme emotions.
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Reply Thu 7 Dec, 2017 07:42 am
She doesn't care.

I'm serious. She does not care one iota whether you love her or not and, I am sure, you're not on her radar when it comes to companionship or emotions or anything other than being someone she has to lecture to, call on at times, and grade. You're a student, she's a professor, full stop.
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Reply Wed 3 Jan, 2018 11:37 pm

Best to leave her alone.

Answer mine
Reply Thu 4 Jan, 2018 07:59 am
You got your answer. Quit self-promoting your topic.
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Reply Tue 16 Jan, 2018 06:13 am
I think you feel like you hate her when you see her because you know an obstacle exists fot you two to be together. Believe me or not, I had such an experience as well, I fell in love with my professor and told him about it. He took it pretty cool , and I was afraid to have some studying troubles after that, but a few months later he quit teaching at all...
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