high school problems

do you have any classes with her? do you see her throught out the day when you could talk to her?

yea a few

Why are you so into this girl?

shes one of the few very hot, very smart, very nice, and good personality girls in my school.

I'm sure thats why she's very popular.

What I mean though - what is it about her that really REALLY attracts you?

What do you have in common?

If she's really very smart and very nice she's probably not overly swayed by the cult of popularity.

Find your connection. What is it?

Do you go to a big school or a little school?

pretty big, idk dont know her THAT well

if i was you i would talk to her and become friends or maybe not quite friends but see if you could hold a conversation with her. i know i hate awkward silence with guys. see if theres any chemistry or connection. if there is the ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. if not id let it pass.

When i was in high school, I was just like you. I didn't hang around with the incrowd, but i knew them all and they were cool with me. There were some girls who were very popular and would sometimes show interest in me until they found out i wasn't hanging out all night smoking weed and drinking 40's. It kind of botherd me until I got to college and girls were more into confident, responsible guys.

Go ahead and try to spit your game. Don't worry if that is the reason she dumps you. those kind of girls usually are not worth the fuss. You better learn how get over the fear rejection if you really want to find the girl of your dreams.

naa im good with rejection, ive mastered the art of being dumped harshly...ive been dumped a week before christmas after a 4 yr relationship, been laughed at by sum girl i asked to hc and was dumped after 2 weeks. Ya so the rejection thing...consider me king

Cool.

Let me offer some advice, MrBob. Find a chick that likes the way you look, likes the way you walk, and thinks you are intelligent and witty. Then, be nice to her. Be very nice.