EMS--
In successful marriages each spouse is only a part of the other one's life.
There is no good reason for you to subsume your being into that of your confused girlfriend. She needs space and so do you. This would be true if you were 67 years old and had been married for 50 years.
You complain:
Quote:She told me her and her parents decided she should go speak to someone about her issues and ive supported it cause i want the old her back. But idk what to do anymore, i feel like she just doesnt want me around sometimes and i mean im 17, i feel like im married to her because we are so close, but i dont deserve to be treated like this right? Please help, idk what to do anymore.
She's having emotional troubles; she's going to see a shrink and you want her to focus on you and the way you feel?
Your Ex's emotional problems are hers--and she's entitled to focus on them.
If you want to have the emotional resources to support her, get out and get a life. Find activities that make you a more accomplished, interesting and resourceful person.
She's having trouble right now--she needs to focus on her problems, not on you and your feelings of being neglected.