well if he's a customer....

I don't think it wrong. Just try to get on break when you do it, so you won't get in trouble for picking up chicks on the job.

I met the present Mr S in a Newsagents (I was helping out my friend at the time) He bought a Boxing Weekly magazine. I made what I thought was a funny/witty/sarcastic comment about boxing. He seemed quite affronted at the time! Then he started coming in everyday...and 'hovering' by the sellotape if I were serving someone else, just so he would be served by ME. I know what you mean, I started 'watching' for him, and would feel a frisson of exitement when he came in.

When I left the shop, I found out that he had been in asking where I had gone and if I was 'taken'. I told her she could give him my phone number. He rang...and the rest, as they say 'is history'!

Turns out he used to be a boxer (amateur) but gave it up when he had his nose broken for the second time. He occasionally writes about boxing though, and was buying the magazine to see if they had printed it.

We have been together for seven years (lived together for five). We will be getting married on March 25th (Good Friday). He's the love of my life!

Does she/he (I don't want to presume) show any signs of interest in you? Do you 'chat' already? Take it slow and 'read' the signals is my advice. And if you get the knock back...it's all in the game!

Be careful though, when I was sixteen, I worked in a chippy. A lad used to come in that I was 'mad on'...I got the sack for giving him free pies! My Mum was dead annoyed. Ah the folly of youth! I still see him around now and again...and I soo wouldn't! :wink:

just read the title and your profile...I see you have a hetro thing going on...just got up, soz :wink:

Sure, I'd get to know this person better...BUT get it out of the store as soon as you can, like go out for coffee or something. You don't want to give your employer a reason to call you a slacker.

thanks guys and by the way i know that my avatar throws people off becuase it's travis bickle and all but that's only because I'm in love with the idea of travis bickle. I'm all chick and he's all guy, well I suppose he is.

Anyway we chat, i know he was born in hong kong and his dad fled india in 1967 to hong kong for politcal reasons.

Go for it. It's not like an office situation that will make things 'uncomfortable'.

except that he's a regular

Definitely ask him if he wants to watch porn with you. Travis Bickle is so underrated as a player.

hehe no no player jut one cooked man, the porno movie he takes Cybil sherpard too well... but I have a thing for complicated, hence video store boy. He's Hindu (Indian as in from India) born in hong kong has a uk passport, speaks chinese, hindi, english and italian (it could have been spanish but what do I Know). And from living in just about every big city on every continent he's now coming into my video store in Jo'burg south africa.

Being able to orgasm in many languages is a rare talent. I still say go for it. There's probably a reason he's sniffing around your video store.

yeah and hopefully it's not one of the other girls that work there...

I gave him the Deer Hunter, he dug it he came in today and told me it was great. I'm like told you so.

Thats Travis Bickle in your avatar? I thought it was Michael Stipe :wink:

I say go for it, the communication lines are open and it sounds like more than just idle chit chat. Good Luck!

thanks sublime i'll try all though i do get that whole I'm not good enough vibe, you know not pretty enough or whatever.

Awwwwww, c'mon, taggedL. Do it!
You don't want this to be a 'wish I'd done it thing' 20 years from now, do you?

no your right ebeht and he hasn't come into the store for a week and half and I'm likie oh my god i can't take all i wanna do is se him!!

What do I do wait around and be patient or do something drastic