I want to shave my area.

Was this the friend with the twitchy eyebrow, or the one holding the grudge?

Amen sister!

I did it originally, because it's just so much nicer in swimsuit season, but discovered my boyfriend and I both
thought it enhanced the um...oral experience :wink:

My new year evening consisted of a discussion in a restaurant on pubic hairdressing.
My friend who is very into beauty products said that she had bought some of those wax strips that you warm up by rubbing them between the hands then smooth on area and pull.
I was amazed as I had been using them for ages and she had only just bought them.
The conversation was between me and my 2 best girlfriends and one of their boyfriends.I now know (in my mind)what each of my pals pubic area looks like and what they do to get it like that!!! Im scarred for life.

I can understand Brazilians or getting rid of it all if people wear skimpy undies/thong bikinis or to enhance pleasures of the south.

Ive never been into the Brazilians etc as I think the constant upkeep would annoy me immensly.I dont think there is a name for what I have but I decided to tell my friends I have 'a Chewbacca', which they were mightily amused by.

I got the impression that these things are done for potential boyfriends and not for the person who owns the hairy area.

We concluded that creams are good but grows back too quickly,waxing is painful and doesnt always get everything off and shaving is just a big stubble nightmare.

We also touched on male southern hairstyles,some get rid of it etc.

All in all a very interesting and surreal discussion.

I'll bet! And I can just imagine the faces of the older couple sitting in the booth behind you.

Hehe, we did get some odd looks.They were a young couple tho.

I had a similar thing happen to me at a party once. It was a small party--maybe ten or twelve people--and we got into the biggest debate about the shaving thing for about two hours. The weird thing is that most of us didn't even know each other very well, but oh man, the personal graphic details we revealed! It was surreal, and I could tell that afterwards, some of the people there were uncomfortable with how much they had revealed in the heat of the debate. It was a blast.

I seemed to be ok with talking about other people bits but when it came to talking about my topiary I did get embarrassed.Other than that it seemed like a surprising topic to have cropped up but ok coz it was with friends.
I think I could have guessed what thay had anyway.Its supposed to reflect your love life isnt it.
eg
brazilian for friend with boyfriend.
bit more foliage than brazilian for pal thats married.
everything still there for me who doesnt get a look in with the guys.(boohoo,violins please)

Does anyone get embarrassed about revealing that part of their anatomy to a new lover?Do things like,'what if they dont like it' go through your head?

I hate it when guys get in a group and talk about girls bits.they make it sound like thats all we are, a well trimmed bush!!!

Kicky one word - Don't

You mean there really is more to women?

Slappy do you live in or near boston?

Slappy doo hoo, you are very naughty and you need to go out to work an 18 hour day so you can earn me some money so I can spend it on Jimmy Choo shoes.Oops was that a stereotype?!

Nope. Never. I LOVE the unveiling part! Why, do you get embarrassed?

Why not?

I get embarrassed about revealing any part of my body but the most excruciating bit is that part!!!

Wow, material girl, that's one of the best parts of sex! The first time you get naked with somebody is incredibly sexy to me.

Doesn't the excitement of it override the anxiety for you?

(did he shave yet?)

No, I just trimmed the shrubbery. I have great instructions on how to do it though from seed, if I decide to go all the way. Still thinking about it.

Laser will do the trick permanently or at least for years
to come....

Not ready for that big a commitment yet, but thanks, I'll keep it in mind.