Is it normal for a guy not to care if his friends flirt with you?

Given what you've posted here and in the train thread, it reads as if he is grooming you for sexual activity with other people.

Please be very careful around this guy.

What do you mean by grooming? Sorry not familiar with the lingo

If it makes you uncomfortable, it's not normal to you.

If you ever find that something is making you 'uncomfortable', but feel pressured to engage or undergo in it anyway, because it is 'the norm' , then you are not taking care of number one.

I read your thread where you said your bf wants to run a train too. This 'boy' doesn't really shape up in the 'friend' department, if you ask me. You should get rid of him.

You have one life, and you get just one chance to live it. So you should make sure you enjoy it, but not at the risk of becoming one of the 'Me too' crowd.

Edit: Grooming means as much as 'preparing you for', certainly in that context

He makes me feel crazy for not wanting these things. Constantly telling me that his feelings are normal and mine aren't. He says "it's my biological norm" to have multiple men coming after me.

grooming means preparing you for something
to make you think it's acceptable / normal

this boy/man is NOT a friend

you need to think about why you are willing to be with someone who is trying to push you past your sexual knowledge and comfort level

he is not behaving as a kind, normal, boyfriend should

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please talk to an adult about this

your boyfriend's sexual pressures and suggestions need to be known by an adult

I"m not quite at the point where I'd suggest someone let the police know ... but I'm close

talk to an adult you trust - parent / teacher/ counsellor/priest/adult relative

this is a really bad sign

please talk to an adult

and

break up with this person

You are in charge of your own feelings, not him, and certainly where it concerns your body.

Frankly, I completely agree with ehBeth in that you shouldn't hang around this fellow, but if you feel a need to discuss things with him regardless, you might point out that it's certainly not the biological norm for a man to want to share 'his' woman with other males, so where on earth does he come off telling you that his feelings are normal?

However, I would avoid this subject in particular, and his company in general, altogether.

This is serious stuff and yet you are not listening to any of us who are warning you. Your supposed "boyfriend" is not a friend, but an ugly minded user.

Please reread your posts and the posts of those of us trying to get you to pay attention and take this seriously.

Again, as ehBeth and others have said:
talk to an adult you trust - parent / teacher/ counsellor/priest/adult relative

What are your ages?

in the other thread she said she is 17...

Yes, but what is his age?

He's 21

Where I live a guy aged 30 persuaded a teenage girl that he was her "boyfriend" and also that in his "culture" it is normal for a guy to share his girlfriend. His "friends" were actually paying him. He got ten years and the others five to seven.

He's a groomer and an abuser. I bet those friends of his are paying him to have sex with you. Dump him and go to the police if he won't leave you alone. This is serious.

We've been dating for a year though. This seems like I'm overreacting. He's a good guy. I think he just wanted to try something different. I promise he doesn't hurt me

He wants to watch while you are with another guy - doing things?

That guy is sick.

We'll sort of. He wants to be with me and he wants another guy(s) to be with me at the same time. Which I know is worse. I just wondered if it could be normal for a college guy...

No.

He is not a good guy.

A good guy would not try to have you have sex with his friends. Especially since it's clear you haven't known what he was asking you to do.

That is not a nice guy.

Tell an adult.

This guy is a criminal. Get your ass out of there double pronto.