Kiersten 0825 wrote:
... How can I get out of it?
Of course you can get out of it. Say, "I don't want to go."
You don't need to offer involved explanations. You don't want to go, period.
And seriously consider sending this jerk packing. Who the hell cares if you've been together for a year? I have been married for 25 and have known my husband for going on 29 years. If he suggested that to me tonight I would tell him to take a hike - and I love him. But if he suggested such a thing I would know that he didn't love me, didn't even so much as like me, didn't care about my health or well-being, and chose his buddies over me.
I would also know that he wouldn't give a damn about my life, BTW, seeing as anyone could be carrying any sort of disease.
I've got a helluva lot more self-respect than I would if I allowed that. Why don't you?