What does it mean to run a train on someone?

The answer is no.

That person is not a friend of yours.

Talk to your parents about what your so-called bf said. Tell them today.

If you are still in school, speak to a school counsellor about this immediately. And I mean now.

What do you mean?

Well - if you go to a party with a guy who has friends like that, you need to know.

Where I come from, "to run a train" on a girl means that all the guys would have a "go " on her- get it? Take turns with her. That can mean sex/rape or something else.

When a girl "runs a train" that means she takes on a group of guys, one at a time for sex.

So now you know. And you need to decide if you want to hang around a guy who has friends who think like that.

Talk to your parents and school counsellors immediately.

Your boyfriend has told you that he and his friends are all planning to have sexual intercourse with you at the party.

If you don't care about yourself, there are other people who will be there who need to be warned.

It's not funny, nothing to mess around with.

Tell an adult in real life - today.

Oh wow. I had no idea. I don't know if I would be comfortable with that..but my bf says we're going. How can I get out of it?

That's the thing...it's a "party" but only me, him and like 5 of his friends will be there. Now that I know what that means I don't think I should go. But I don't know how to get out of going..

Talk to an adult in real life about this today.

your boyfriend is not a good friend to you

talk to an adult in real life about all of this today

God girl!!! Haven't you ever told a guy to get lost? Blocked him? Ignored him?

This creep was planning on using you!!

This is so ridiculous that I'm thinking it might be a scam.

I've been with him for a year now. I just don't want to go. I'm sure he didn't mean any harm probably just wanted something different.

Please don't be an idiot. Don't go. Have some self respect.
Even if for some stupid reason this was considered some kind of joke, it is not at all funny.

Well that's rude. I don't want to go obviously now that I know. But my bf did say I don't have to if I don't want to but he wants me to still come.

Seriously this is starting to sound like a scam. Its obvious what to do in this situation.
You should tell him that you don't appreciate him saying something like that(assuming you don't) and not go to the party with him if you don't want to go. After him saying something like that, you might want to take care of yourself if you decide to go

Thank you. It definitely wasn't a scam he was serious unfortunately. But yeah I'm not going. I don't want to be trapped there because I can't drive yet.

how old are you?

Of course you can get out of it. Say, "I don't want to go."

You don't need to offer involved explanations. You don't want to go, period.

And seriously consider sending this jerk packing. Who the hell cares if you've been together for a year? I have been married for 25 and have known my husband for going on 29 years. If he suggested that to me tonight I would tell him to take a hike - and I love him. But if he suggested such a thing I would know that he didn't love me, didn't even so much as like me, didn't care about my health or well-being, and chose his buddies over me.

I would also know that he wouldn't give a damn about my life, BTW, seeing as anyone could be carrying any sort of disease.

I've got a helluva lot more self-respect than I would if I allowed that. Why don't you?

I'm 17

At first he wouldn't budge, he said they wouldn't do anything but that I needed to come because it's Halloween. Now he's says I don't NEED to come but that he'll be sad if I don't. I agree it is a little strange but I would like to think that he's not trying to be a jerk. I'm obviously uncomfortable with doing what he wants but I've asked some other people and they say it's normal so I don't know. Either way, I don't think I'll come

It's not normal. And he is trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty for refusing.

Your body, your choice. His pouting shouldn't make a bit of difference.