Ladies...A question for you!

This question has been asked before, recently. i think the concensus was either au natural or trimmed.

Except for me, I like em clean shaven!

I prefer not to look.

grooming of the mans mans hair!!!
ok, so I accidently voted for ungroomed...i meant to vote for trimmed....
I cannot stand body hair...wanna get me started on their chests and backs???? yeeeuck!!!!

The last guy I dated trimmed down his chest hair - not the he was out of control hairy to begin with. I thought it was very weird at the time, but in retrospect, I kind of like it.

lol im gonna speak for all of the men with body hair out there...jeeze women, give the guys a break...think of them as teddy bears...i personally think guys who shave all of their body hair r a lil strange, kinda seems woman-like to me

I'd say the women who want their men shaved are in the minority.

natural

Grooming the wilderness is one step away from wearing foundation.

why should women shave and not men? hair is hair. i certainly like shaved armpits - on women or men. legs and chests can be hairy on a guy- chests preferably trimmed. but the rest of the hair can go as far as i'm concerned, don't like it.

I guess culture may have a lot to do with how grooming (or lack of) is perceived.

The first European woman I saw was at Daytona during vacation. Made quite an impression. She was in her bathing suit, and had the thickest man hair sticking out of her suit, springing out from her legs; a thatch hanging out from beneath both armpits... It was the most hideous thing I'd seen to date. I gagged. She may as well have been Bigfoot, come down from the mountains for a swim.

My culture does dictates that women shave and men don't. I suppose we get used to our cultural norms. I didn't gag the last time I saw a woman who didn't shave, but I honestly couldn't finish my lunch.

Men with shaped eyebrows creep me out, also. Different strokes, I guess.

Oddly, GAY men with shaped eyebrows don't bother me at all. Its just in mulling the eyebrow shaping man for possible sexual adventuring that tops my freak meter.

Considering an eyebrow shaper or a hairless-by-design man (the accidentally hairless man is not far removed from this category) for lovin' would be too much like considering another woman. Don't know why that gives me the extreme gross outs, but it does.

<blues guitar...heavy oldtime rhythm...>
"I want a maain....>
<bomp ba-bomp ba bomp>
"I say I wanna REEEEeel man."
<tortured screaming blues guitar solo>
"Don't want no main with a manicure...
If he's big, bad and hairy
I will give him some sweet pleasure...
I wanna a main..."

Thank ya.



Thankyaveramuch.

Any other personal tales of sexual hang-ups?

Yikes!
Lash wants Setanta

I think that info is gonna give me a hang-up.

i don't care what culture dictates. i can well decide for myself what i like and what i don't. it's all a matter of getting used to. not long ago (and some cultures still do) culture dictated things considered outrageous or ridiculous today. norms change. men groom more and more increasingly. thankgod.

Good for you. Its a good thing the hairless types have women who will take them.

There should be someone for everyone.

I imagine this woman's habits wouldn't cause you to bat an eyelash:

The first European woman I saw was at Daytona during vacation. Made quite an impression. She was in her bathing suit, and had the thickest man hair sticking out of her suit, springing out from her legs; a thatch hanging out from beneath both armpits...
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You never have to worry about your meal being wasted in a restaurant, when some woman comes in dressed in a tube top, puts her elbows on a table, revealing man pits. I'm sure this is somehow in your favor.

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PS-- No worries ehBeth. Hair is not the only criteria--just lack of (in a conspicuous manner) is a deal breaker. I will not come sniffing around your territory. <graciously takes one step back>

<didn't want to leave you with a hang up that would impede your lovin'>

note that i said "hair is hair" - i don't like it on women or men. enough said. suit yourself, i will suit myself.

Good words dagmaraka!!

Yes. Good words, dagmaraka!!

If its a cultural thing its the other way round - I mean - I think the men-grooming-their-pubic-hair thing must be American - well, either that or I'm totally out of touch. Because I hafta confess, I hadnt even heard of it (outside a porn/kinky sex or gay scene context) until it was brought up here on this forum. I was totally .

Immediately after that, I had to admit, there's a logic in there - if women had to start shaving (and we imported that habit from the states too, be it a long time ago, as you pointed out), then why not men. But it still just seems - odd. Not that I like the idea of 'hardwood' on women either - I want a woman who looks like a woman, not like a prepubescent girl, thank you very much, trimmed will do. So why not trimmed on men? Yeah, I guess so, I dunno. It still seems totally gay, err, metrosexual, to me (and thats me talking, imagine). But hey, I guess the generation after me perhaps. Maybe the 20-year olds do it here now already too. Maybe I should get out more

I shave my chest/stomach. I hate when I'm wearing a button-up shirt with the top 1-2 buttons unbuttoned and hair is showing.

I then take the shaved hairs and put them in my roomate's pillowcase.

A friend of mine shaves his forearms bald. That's kind of strange, but he is a hairy I-talian.