Hmmm - I made my somewhat-overstated-for-discussion-starting-purposes-
but-largely-as-I-see-it statement of belief about patriotism here
http://www.able2know.com/forums/viewtopic.php?p=398042#398042 a long time ago.
I am wondering how you define patriotism, Joe?
By most of the definitions I see, I would not want to be patriotic - since I see a strong element of irrationality in it.
My sense is that, under most definitions of patriotism that I have seen (on the thread I refer to, most people just defined it for themselves, and many, as I recall, made up definitions the living out of which I would find perfectly reasonable - but, to my thinking, they were not examples of patriotism as defined sharply - look at Larry's definition, for instance - ("Patriot: : one who loves his or her country and supports its authority and interests" ) you cannot be patriotic and want America to "lose" in Iraq.
This is not, in my view, to make any criticism whatever of your stand - but simply to say that there is an element of irrational support of one's country, whether right or wrong by any reaonable definition, (and above other loyalties - eg to justice and fairness between nations) - inherent in, I believe, the concept of patriotism.
I think you can be absolutely right and ethical in what you want - and be a strong proponent of your country's and people's physical, intellectual and ethical well-being - but I do not think you are being a patriot, as it is usually understood.
I think what you are wanting to be is BETTER than a patriot, as it happens.
This view is certainly arguable - and I am interested to hear how you might define patriotism.... however:
When I looked patriotism up - in a number of different places - this is the definition I found, broadly speaking:
"Love and support of one's country - devotion to one's nation."
Love and devotion - I think there is an edge of irrationality here.
The thesaurus gives us a close alliance to nationalism - which is defined as "believing that your national culture and interests are superior to any other".
Other definitions stressed preparedness to sacrifice oneself - which is reasonable, I think.
Egad - enough rambling!
Edit: I finished reading the thread - and saw this:
"I want what is best for the US and its citizens. That, to my mind, makes me an American patriot. I also believe that losing the war in Iraq will be best for the US and its citizens. That means that I can want the US to lose the war and still be a patriot. How am I mistaken?"
There is your definition of patriotism - I would argue that it does not fully encompass the normal meaning of patriotism - but it is a reasonable working definition. Using that definition i could easily agree that you are a patriot.