I'm 19. My now-ex is 16. I attend college about an hour away which im gone for 6 months out of the year and home every weekend. We went out for about a year and had the most amazing relationship. I am pretty much adopted in her family and have spent so much time with them. I spent sooooooo much time with her too during the past year.
A couple times she wanted to take a break and they both lasted about a week, then resulted in us getting back together by mostly pressure from me. But then she started seeing this other guy behind my back for about a week and I called her on cheating cuz she is a horrible liar. I yelled at the kid (her age), and then it turned into this whole break up and now she is dating him. This was three weeks ago. We haven't seen each other since and I think she's affraid of seeing me and falling right back in love with me.
She told me its over right now but she also told me she loves me and could really see herself marrying me and im this perfect guy, but not for this time in her life. She wants to experiment a bit as she had 2 other relationships before me. She even told her parents weeks before this that shes going to marry me.
Like I understand that she wants to experiment, but I find it hard to accept the fact that I need to keep my distance for awhile and I keep doubting myself that it'll work after she has sex with a bunch of other guys. Her friends are all "lets go get drunk and screw everyguy." I don't think shes like that but her friends have a big influence on what she does.
I don't know whether i should try to forget about her completely or sit down and tell her that I'm willing to give her time with other people b/c im in love with her and am willing to wait for her to be ready. If i go the second option, I would try to maybe see a couple more girls but I'm worried since I know as time goes on, we will grow further and further apart.
Anyone have any suggestions and/or comments?