How do I get my wife re-interested?

wrap a hundred dollar bill around your unit...if she's like most women she'll smell it out like a beagle

alwaysme- Welcome to A2K!

Have you discussed this with her? There are some women who are shy about initiating sex. It sounds like once you initiate lovemaking, everything is OK, so that isn't a problem. Maybe she needs to know from you that you would be turned on if she came after you. Good luck!

BP, thanks for the laugh this morning.

I would go with the talk to her about it idea. Wrapping the money around your unit may work, but if she doesn't get it unwrapped before you use your unit, then you are just throwing good money down an empty hole. Of course, if she gets excited over $1 bills, then BPB may have something.

Seriously though, talk to her about it. My wife and I had much the same thing when we got married a long 22 years ago. She enjoyed sex, but was always hesitant to initiate it. There were several different reasons, but after talking about it, I was assured it was not because she did not enjoy sex or want it regularly, but it just was not her thing to initiate it regularly. She slowly (very slowly) got more comfortable initiating sex and now she probably initiates it a third of the time.

So, to condense my ramblings, talk to her about it. Tell her how much it would mean to you, and then, even when she shows a hint of initiating, tell her how much of a turn on it was that she did what she did. It may lead her to be a bit bolder the next time in initiating things.

Hope this all made sense.

I almost forgot...after wrapping with the hundred dollar bill....dip it in chocolate...might as well get a little oral foreplay.....