we reunited after four long heart breaking years everything

i fell head over hills in love with a man over four years ago, some thing's happend and we spilt up after only five short but awesome month's,i carried around four years of unanswered questions and emptiness, untill this past september when i found his sister one day on the enternet, i contacted her to see how she was and she informed me that her brother was single and that he had gotton married but that it didn't work out and that they had a child together, well i had just recently became engaged to a very loving and caring man, but a part of me still held this huge piece of love for we'll call him andy,so i decided to drop him a small letyter in with his sisters laetter one day and low and be hold he actually contacted me, i was shocked but excited and tears just flooded me my heart raced my hole body shook from the sound of his voice, i informed him of my engagement and he asked me to come to see him, well i did i had not seen him or his sister or the kid's in four years, i arrive and we reunited, it was the most wonderfull day of my life everything was perfect he was perfect i took me around to all his friends and would put me on the highest peddlestool, he begged me over and over for a second chance asked me to marry him told all his family and friends that i was the only women he had ever loved , well i came back home convinced that faith had stepped in and he was who i was meant to be, i ended my engagement and two week's later headed back to him for the night to make sure eveything was a go that we were really doing this i was moving four hours away with him picking up and just moving well everything was fine he said he loved me wanted to grow old with me he knew what he had done to me and swore he would never hurt me again, well the next day i and his sister drove back to my hometown to get my thing's together she went to see her sister that lives in town where i do and the next day we were to meet up. well that next day came she couldn't be found i called andy and asked if he had heard from her he said no but not to panic well he called me back and said she was back home that there was and emergency. well a f the next day i called him and was going to drive on up the next day. well he told me to wait that he had to see his lawyer the next day and that he would call me and than i could drive o up., well he took all doubts i had away promicing we were going to be together, well that day came he said it was going to be about two weeks before i could come up i had no problem with that, well a few day's went by i didn't hear from him couldnt get him on the phone well i found out from his sister that he had been talking to his ex wife and the following week he went to court with her and lost custody of there son to her well he never called wouldn't return my calls nothing i figured he was doing it because of his son being up set and all, well his sister called me a week later and said that the ex had moved back in, and that he was only doing it because of the baby, i agreed with this so one day i catch him on the phone and he tells me that he meant all he said he didn't know if he loved me but that she was there untill he got his son back, well two weeks ago i im'ed his sister and these thing's started coming across the screen like go way get over it already leave me alone,it was him acting like his siter, she came on said she was sorry and so on, well i decided to call his cell phone the other day and he answered i used the excuse did you call here this morn he said no, i said ok but he wasn't mean and never said not to call him back,well ifound out from his siter that it want be long before she's gone, and i have the same feeling, but my question is what do i do? i have broken off my engagement for him,i love him god know's i love him and i never thought he did untill we reunited he loves me i know he dous even his sister and mother think so what do i do?