I need Guy help!!!!!

Take the plunge and ask him out. What have you got to lose?

the statement 'she's pretty cool' (i've used it tons of times),as it is, doesnt mean anything at all. a neutral stance.

but it may as well depend on the environment ....

if he said it when he's happy , he's not feeling too good abt u.
but the line's pretty cliched, so dont worry about this. we say it , when we dont have anything else that could be said about her.

He's single, you're single, ask, sure. If you were currently friends, I'd worry a bit about disrupting that, but don't see any barrier to going ahead and seeing what happens from what you describe. He may say "no", of course, so prepare yourself for that possibility.

Good luck!

Some guys just need to be hit with a brick.

I needed to be hit with a BIG brick.

WEll we are still friends so i dont know if i want to ruin that. And im kinda old fashioned and dont ask guys out.Plus i dont think i could handle it if he did reject me and say no.but thanx for your advise

You were together for four months, and he dumped you for another chick? Strike One, and he's out.

That's just my way, of course.

But i really really like him still. and hes soo sweet i just cant get over him. especialy his smile it makes me melt.So he cant get one strike and be out. And is 4 months very long? (i havnt had many relationships.

hmm...4 months wud be long if the relationship is going nowhere.sure it would. but u seem to be confused. that's natural. so strip off everything that bothers you , and let your heart out to him.and as sozobe said, he may well say 'no', so be prepared for it. believe me, this girl i know once said there are literally millions of guys out there she fell in love with , or their smiles!!

thanx i needed to hear that. I really appreciate it. I "forgot" that there were other guys i could fall in "love" with thanx again

That's been my problem over the years, too!

My advice - if he's gone off with someone else after 4 months, he might do the same thing again. You don't want to be "second best", do you?

Enjoy meeting guys - remember that we're simple human beings too - everyone different. Each encounter will teach you something about yourself. Always be prepared to learn those lessons from yourself - your own reaction and emotion when confronted with a potential partner is very valuable and should be understood. You'll know what to look for and what to avoid.

Good luck, KP