@Rachel00,
I vote for not call him at all. It is creepy for a 30 year old guy who has a crappy job to be hitting on 17 year old girls. He is scamming you.
There is nothing wrong with having a fantasy... talking with someone for 30 minutes on the phone doesn't mean you know them. Your mind is making up a fantasy of the magical man who will randomly call you up and wisk you away on some fairytale adventure.
But know the difference between fantasy and reality. Don't call him.