Hey everyone,
I'm new here. I come on sometimes and see that you guys give out good advice, and now I am asking for your advice on my situation. Some of you will laugh and say "you call that a problem?", well for me it is.
Recently, I have found that my friends are jealous of me. How do i know this? they have pretty much said it to my face. The first story: one of my friends use to like this guy we'll call him dave.
So she asks me if I would go with her to this place because she knows he will be there. SO she ends up talking to Dave, and I sat there pretty much the whole time not saying a word because I wanted them two to get acquainted as much as possible. The next day she wants to meet up with me and says something important is up. I go and she tells me how Dave called her right after we left from seeing him, and asked her if i had a bf and what I thought of him. Then she tells me "see what I mean, and you ask why am I jealous of you?" I didn't know what to say to her. Later I find out that the only reason she brought me along was because the rest of our friends didn't want to go. She also tells me that two of our other friends feel the same about me because one of their boyfriends said that i was pretty (he didn't mean anything by it) but she thought he did, and that's why my friend never wants us three to go out together. She always says something childish like "You look good tonight, I am sure Bob would say the same." I really only have one good friend (and for that I am thankful for because I know how hard is to find a good friend these days) I've known her, her whole life. She's 18 and I am 20, she's like a sister to me, we can count on one another any time. But I still feel alone at times. These other friends of mine, well I just really don't know what to do or even whether to call them friends. They'll call me to do something small like coffee but rarely ever something fun like clubbing. I know I am not a boring person that's for sure. I'm all about going out and having a good time but it's kind of hard when you have friends like this. I go out when I can and pretty much focus on school. I can't say I'm goodlooking myself but others tell me it always. I don't know what to do ? I for one will never understand this, that's why I am asking you guys, if you can make sense of this. I never answer their phone calls anymore, maybe that's a mistake.
What I am pretty much asking here, is:
1. Why are they acting like this?
( I have never done anything to hurt them. I am a really honest person.)
2. Should I make new friends?
(which is tough these days)
3. Or just stick with my bestfriend?
(which is what I am thinking of doing)
I will greatly appreciate your advice guys,
Thanks