THANK YOU ALL FOR THE SITES SO FAR...
Well... very good question Sebastian. It baffles me completely!
I don't even think I personally can blame that I was in a public school upto grade 4 then changed to a private school (for various reasons, including not being taught as much as I was capable of learning). It is indeed frustrating. You don't realise until you are presented with some type of test that says "Underline all nouns, circle all adjectives and draw a square around adverbs"... my god! (A verbs
is more than a person, place or thing!)
I have a friend who is, perhaps, 6 years older than I, and she claims she was taught grammar. But I have been teaching myself with a book that is made for students of other languages... in my case, French. I feel I know more French grammar than English.
But I am trying.
I hope you can learn enough to be happy, but it seems to never end. But it has become my passion to know.