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I'm afraid that Post 1124212 on P20 will have to lie on the file.It raises far too many questions which require a considered and lengthy response to do them justice.Picking one or two out would inevitably cause distortion.
This is ok with me, spendius. I'm X-rated on religion. And I agree it's a big subject that requires a lot of work to write about. Distortions are so annoying for the person commiting them.
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I suppose psychiatrists have to risk that but they ought to be aware that what they pick out for examination says something about themselves.
Any psychotherapist worth his or her salt not only knows this but uses it as a guiding principle. Everything we do or say reveals something about ourselves. The question is, of course what does it reveal? We would all be well advised to remember that what we think another means by what the other says or does is strongly influenced by our own idiocyncratic fantasies and assumptions.
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Like a cat does when it picks out the movement of a mouse in the windswept bushes.
Cats eat mice for dinner when they can find them. But once eaten, the cat has no more mouse to play with, until the cat finds another mouse, and not all mice are created equal. I don't believe it's wise to kill a good playmate. Dull ones can be eaten if the cat is hungry. But I like to keep my fun playmates around for more fun. Cat and mouse is only fun if turns are taken. Like, "you be the mouse today and I'll be the mouse tomorrow."
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Maybe I should bite the bullet and equip my residence with one of these potentially revolutionary machines
Yes, I think you should. It's good for a lot more than threading.......although, that's a fine use for it.
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But that involves taking a chance on threader's stamina and sensitivity.A fair number take off at the first sign of the stiletto or embark on rants of inordinate incomprehensibility.
Maybe you might want to hide the stiletto, just a bit until you can determine if the playmate is worth keeping around, or if the mouse is afraid of sharp knives. It makes for more playmates. Stilettos can be revealed in time with more caution.
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You said somewhere that you had been defending me in a restaurant
I was just telling everyone how much fun you are to play with. I advised them to not be so offended by the stabbing pain inflicted by your stiletto. You're a friendly sort of guy who just likes to play rough, I said.
Quote:It doesn't matter what anybody needs.If people's needs were given priority we would be in one big mess.There would be about 250 million demanding to live the lush lifestyle of Manhattan sophisticates.
And that is a mere gesture towards the scabbard the stiletto is held in.
Not everyone has the needs of Manhattan sophisticates. Some people like to live on farms and small towns. There are happy plumbers and street workers, for instance. Only if one is unhappy in what they are doing because their needs are inadequately met is there a problem. And that's a solvable problem.
Quote:Dylan never said it was a "crime" to love.(P1124588).Just dangerous.
If it's not guilt, (guilt inplies a preceived crime) then what does this mean?
Quote:Heart of mine so malicious and so full of guile,
Give you an inch and you'll take a mile.
Don't let yourself fall Don't let yourself stumble.
If you can't do the time, don't do the crime
Heart of mine.
What's the crime?
See you soon.