Momma Angel wrote:littlek,
What? Sorry, but I'm a bit confused here. You think I should be condemning? Uh, isn't that the kind of thing so many seem to have a problem with Christianity?
littlek and joefromchicago are trying to trap you. I suspect they believe you are trying to have your cake and eat it to.
If you admit that you condemn homosexuals then you cannot be tolerant.
joe argues, in essence, that stating homosexuality is wrong, is actually a condemnation of homosexuality. He may, in a certain sense, be correct. It depends upon how you are using the word
wrong. If by wrong you mean not in accordance with the ordered state of things, then he is incorrect, but if you mean contrary to the laws of Man or God then no matter how you arrived at that conclusion, the formulation of a judgment is implicit and in that sense of the word, you
condemn homosexuality.
Of course common usage of the word
condemn implies some sort of forceful external expression. We are not usually thought to condemn something to ourselves, or to condemn in whispers.
You see, in order for you to lay claim to the politically correct principle of tolerance you cannot judge. If you are tolerant, you cannot think homosexuality is wrong, and you certainly can't say that you think homosexuality is wrong.
My understanding of tolerance doesn't preclude you from forming a judgment that homosexuality is wrong. How you act on that judgment is the real test of your tolerance. And of course, testing your tolerance is not synonymous with testing your character.
I do think though that you should examine your reasoning for believing homosexuality to be wrong. There is not, at least in my mind, a difficulty with believing something is wrong because your God has decreed it to be so. The question should be though, how did you receive the decree? If it is from reading the Bible and believing that the Bible is the literal Word of God then it would seem to have to follow that you believe every decree in the Bible to be the Word of God. It strikes me that a person doesn't get to pick and choose what is the Word of God and then argue that they are not making personal judgments on what things are wrong, but merely conforming to the decrees of their Lord.