Harper wrote:Baldimo, did you choose to be straight, assuming you really are straight and not a closet gay in denial?
Not sure about being a closet gay
. You could be right though, I have looked at another man and thought, "he's a god looking guy". It could also be security with my sexuality.
Who knows you have any ideas?
Einherjar wrote:He's been asked that many times before.
His answer is that straight is the default condition, and that becoming gay requires conscious effort.
I would agree that straight is the default condition or even the norm. Norm being different from normal and not the same.
I wouldn't say a conscious effort but something in the past pushing one to seek affection from the same sex. It would be on a subconscious level for the majority. I willing to bet there is a minority that make the decision on a very conscious level.