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The anti-gay marriage movement IS homophobic

 
 
SCoates
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:27 am
Setanta wrote:
SCoates, here is the logical sequence by which your statement has been condemned.

You state that some people may have: ". . . come to the conclusion that homosexuals have strayed and generally be concerned for their spiritual wellfare." So the question is, strayed from what? A further question is, how is their spiritual welfare endangered? A rather obvious conclusion is that those who are concernced with the spiritual welfare of homosexuals are concerned because they consider it abnormal and sinful. Then we're right back to square one, where such attitudes are justifiably condemned as arising from fear or hatred of homosexuals. When someone reads scripture, and says that it teaches them that homosexuality is bad, for whatever good intentions they may have, they are repeating and perpetuating a hateful and homophobic tradition.


You still make a rather large jump from concern to hatred. In real life that probably takes years of indroctrination. Wink

As soon as I find answers to those questions I will alert the media. For now, there are many who do not wait for the answers. They are the loudest, so they make the biggest impression.
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fredjones
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:27 am
Hmm... that seems to violate the nature of the full faith and credit.

If the state's legal code must be analogous to anothers' in order to recognize your contracts, then it seems like most contracts would not be recognized at all. In other words, it would be too easy for a state to refuse to recognize contracts (entered into under the supervision of another state) based on differences in the legal code.

I might have to research this a little more. I'm pretty much in the dark on this one, and I don't enjoy being unprepared.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:28 am
As a result of judicial review, regardless of the original wording and intent, legal codes often become far more reliable sources for tracing the history of institutions than mere encyclopedias--which, after, are intent upon selling themselves.
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SCoates
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:38 am
Setanta wrote:
When someone reads scripture, and says that it teaches them that homosexuality is bad, for whatever good intentions they may have, they are repeating and perpetuating a hateful and homophobic tradition.


It leads to that discrimination, but it is not the discrimintation itself. If their intentions are good, then until the point when their intentions are corrupted they have done nothing homophobic. If a belief that something is wrong is enough to deserve that label, then (as someone mentioned earlier) you stance is christianophobic--soley on the grounds that the christian position is wrong.

I fully acknowledge that calling homosexuality a sin has lead to homophobic behaviour, but it is not enough alone.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:40 am
Setanta wrote:
As a result of judicial review, regardless of the original wording and intent, legal codes often become far more reliable sources for tracing the history of institutions than mere encyclopedias--which, after, are intent upon selling themselves.

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this.

Come to think of it, I have another question about the "full faith and credit" clause. This clause may not cover civil unions specifically, but I assume it covers contracts in general. For example, suppose I live in New York, come to Columbus, buy your car, drive the car home to New York, and don't pay. In this scenario, our contract binds me by the law of New York state, and its courts would enforce that I uphold my part of our contract. Correct? Now, if marriage is no more than a contract, as some here have contended, it should be possible somehow to recreate most of it in the form and the language of an ordinary contract, and have its terms enforced under generic contract law. Why isn't that possible?
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:47 am
fredjones wrote:
Debra I really enjoyed the article you posted from the Dept. of Health. It illustrates the view that I have: namely that homosexual marriage in no way devalues or tarnishes heterosexual marriage. Nor do I ascribe to any of the past arguments which try to say that if we allow homosexual marriage we must allow polygamy or incest.


I copied and pasted actual text from the Massachusetts Supreme Court opinion that ruled state marriage laws unconstitutional.


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However, I am a reasonable guy, and I think a reasonable compromise is the implementation of civil unions. That way the word "marriage" is reserved for man + woman, yet homosexuals get the legal rights which they deserve. Each side gives up a little, but each side gains a little too. Am I alone in thinking this is a moderate stance?


How about this compromise: Let's reserve the front of the bus for heterosexuals and relegate homosexuals to the back of the bus.

OR how about this compromise: Let's draw a line horizontally across-America. Let's call it . . . hmmmm . . . the Mason-Dixon line. Homosexuals who live north of the line are granted freedom to marry; Homosexuals who live south of the line are prohibited the freedom to marry.

Frankly, it's not within our rights to compromise on this issue. We don't have the power to deprive others of their fundamental rights in the first place.

The "separate but equal" doctrine was declared unconstitutional a half-century ago in Brown vs. Board of Education. Relegating homosexuals to the position of second-class citizenship is not a compromise, it's an unconstitutional proposition. It's unacceptable.


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That aside, this brings me to an important point. How does labeling an opponent of this issue a bigot or a homophobe help the issue?? How does it advance your views? More likely it just puts people on the defensive. By labeling this thread in such a way, it becomes nearly impossible to achieve any kind of consensus. I can no longer change my opinion, because if I do, then I too become a homophobe. This is no way to facilitate an open debate. Sad


Well . . . I didn't label the thread. But the title serves a purpose. It forces people to think about their opposition to same-sex marriage. Do they have a legitimate, important, or compelling reason for depriving others of a fundamental right?

IF your child is big and strong and thinks he's better than other kids and becomes the playground bully, what do you say to him? Does he have a legitimate, important, or compelling reason for depriving the other children of their right to enjoy the playground? NO. He doesn't. So, why can't we call him a bully? Why shouldn't he be held accountable for his bad behavior.

People don't need to be coddled; they need to take a long, hard look in the mirror and ask themselves the difficult questions. If you can look in the mirror and see a person who is so much better than other people based on the fact that you sleep with someone of the opposite sex rather than a person of the same sex . . . then go ahead and support laws that bully and oppress other people.

But remember: He who would deny freedom to others is undeserving of freedom for himself.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:47 am
It is possible. There was a big stink about "live-in" lovers when Lee Marvin ditched his, and she sued, successfully, for alimony under the laws of the state of California. It is completely plausible that one might enter into a binding contract with all the appurtenances of marriage, and that said contract would be valid everywhere. I don't believe it has been done, however, and would require the services of one hell of a slick contract lawyer.

Your example about buying the car is rather feeble (which is not intended to insult you, i'm sure you pulled it off the top of your head), because to do so would require the notarized transfer of the title to the car, and full faith and credit definitely kicks in in such an example. I'll remember not to sell the jeep to you, however.
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Setanta
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 02:51 am
SCoates wrote:
You still make a rather large jump from concern to hatred. In real life that probably takes years of indroctrination.

As soon as I find answers to those questions I will alert the media. For now, there are many who do not wait for the answers. They are the loudest, so they make the biggest impression.


You are missing, or willfully ignoring, my point that individuals may subscribe to such notions with the best of intentions--which does not change the fact that the original proscription to which they subscribe was based upon fear and hatred.

Your snide comments about alerting the media and those who are alleged to be the loudest was compeletly unnecessary.
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fredjones
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 03:04 am
Debra:
What do you really want to happen? I think that if you are arguing in favor of gay marriage because of legal issues, then as far as the government is concerned then you are entitled to the same rights as any other couple. But you have to accept the fact that you will probably never change the minds of bible-thumpers that what you are doing is wrong. It is a point of view that I disagree with strongly, but the fact remains.

I think the problem with most moderate Americans lies in the wording of "marriage." They feel that in this case, that word should be reserved for a man and a woman. I think the reasons are mostly traditional. In my opinion, you don't really even have a case to change their minds in this regard. But, as far as the law goes, you have a very strong case. So if gay couples were given the same exact rights as a hetero couple, how have you failed? Under the law you are the same. The only difference is the religious aspect of it. Am I way off in this?

In my opinion, I am with the people who say that ALL marriages should be civil unions, with the churches doing whatever the hell else they want to do with it.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 03:14 am
Setanta wrote:
It is completely plausible that one might enter into a binding contract with all the appurtenances of marriage, and that said contract would be valid everywhere. I don't believe it has been done, however, and would require the services of one hell of a slick contract lawyer.

Perhaps so. But what intrigues me about the idea is that if a deep-pocketed civil rights group like the ACLU employed that slick contract lawyer just once, it could then post the contract on its website, where prospective couples could download it and just insert their names. It would route around this whole government thing, and around the politicians that occupy it.

Setanta wrote:
I'll remember not to sell the jeep to you, however.

Damn! You saw right through me!
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 04:19 am
Thomas wrote:

Debra_Law wrote:
When looking at a typical state statute that defines marriage, it cannot be denied that the state discriminates based on the gender of an individual's intended spouse. At one time, state statutes discriminated on the basis of the race of an individual's intended spouse-- and those state statutes were declared unconstitutional because they infringed on the fundamental right to marry.


You are implying, without actually making the case, that gender-based discrimination is as suspect in the eyes of the Supreme Court as race-based discrimination. According to Jay Feinman's Law 101, that is not the case. Feinman, a liberal law professor at Rutgers, sums up the Supreme Court's gender discrimination jurisprudence as not involving one of the "suspect classes" of discrimination that requires a strict scrutiny test. According to him, the Supreme Court requires intermediate scrutiny -- meaning "intermediate" between "being narrowly tailored to serve a compelling state interest" and "having a rational relation to a legitimate state interest". Of course, Feinman also says that nothing in the constitution says it is supreme law, and you easily debunked that. I am prepared to be debunked again.


Thomas:

I merely pointed out that both gender discrimination and race discrimination result in the infringement of the fundamental right to marry.

Gender is a quasi-suspect class. Race is a suspect class. Laws that discriminate based on gender are usually reviewed using an intermediate level of scrutiny. Laws that discriminate based on race are usually reviewed using strict scrutiny. But don't forget Constitutional Law 101: laws that infringe upon fundamental rights are also reviewed using strict scrutiny. Regardless of whether the discrimination is based on gender or race, the discrimination results in an infringement of the individual's fundamental right to marry.

But for fun, look at manner in which the Massachusetts Supreme Court reviewed its state marriage laws. The state argued that the marriage laws neither discriminated on the basis of gender nor infringed upon a fundamental right; but the Court said the argument didn't matter because the state marriage laws could not even pass the most deferential rational basis test. State laws that prohibit same-sex couples from getting married are not rationally related to any possible legitimate state interest.



Debra_Law wrote:
The Massachusetts Supreme Court considered this argument rejected it under the most deferential standard applied to state laws: the rational basis test.


Thomas wrote:
The federal Supreme Court is not legally bound by the opinion of the Massachusetts Supreme Court's as to whether the proscription of gay marriage fails the rational basis test. And as you said yourself in an earlier post, the federal constitution sets a floor as to how strictly a test is applied. This suggests that the federal Supreme Court, even if it agrees with the Massachusetts court's interpretation of the Massachusetts constitution, may well be less strict in the tests it requires -- and legitimately so. But the federal Supreme Court may well not agree with the reasoning of the Massachusetts Supreme Court. And for what it's worth, I don't either. I think the Massachusetts Supreme Court has been overbearing in its decision.


Thomas:

You appear to be laboring under some confusion with respect to tests the United States Supreme Court applies when reviewing the constitutionality of laws.

If the law targets a suspect class (race) or infringes upon a fundamental right (e.g., the right to marry), then the Court applies strict scrutiny: Does the state have a compelling interest, and if so, is the regulation necessary and narrowly tailored to serve that compelling interest?

The strict scrutiny test is the most difficult test for a statute to pass.

If the law targets a quasi-suspect class (gender or illegitimacy), then the court applies intermediate review: Does the state have an important interest, and if so, is the regulation substantially related to serve that important interest?

For all other laws, the Court applies the rational basis test: Does the state have a legitimate interest, and if so, is the regulation rationally related to serve that legitimate interest?

The rational basis test is the easiest test for a statute to pass. The rational basis test is the most deferential test that a court can apply to a state statute. Any regulation that can possibly be rationally related to some legitimate governmental interest will be upheld as constitutional. Only laws that are deemed arbitrary or capricious (having no rational basis) will be struck down as unconstitutional.

The Massachusetts Supreme Court based its decision on its own state constitution--not the Fourteenth Amendment. The Fourteenth Amendment is the FLOOR meaning the state may not interpret its own constitution to offer LESS protection than Fourteenth Amendment but it may interpret its own constitution to offer MORE protection. The Massachusetts Supreme Court decision -- even though it was applying its own constitution -- quoted extensively from United States Supreme Court cases as authority.

The Massachusetts Supreme Court used the rational basis test to declare its marriage laws unconstitutional. This is the most deferential test that can possibly be applied. Therefore, I don't understand your following statement:

"This suggests that the federal Supreme Court, even if it agrees with the Massachusetts court's interpretation of the Massachusetts constitution, may well be less strict in the tests it requires -- and legitimately so."

There is no test "less strict" than the rational basis test. If a statute cannot pass the rational basis test -- it cannot possibly pass the stricter tests of intermediate review or strict scrutiny.

It is possible for the United States Supreme Court to apply a test that is MORE strict than the rational basis test, but it impossible for the Court to apply a test that is "less strict" than the rational basis test (because no such test exists). Understand?

And with that in mind, take another look at Lawrence v. Texas. The Court stated, "The Texas statute furthers no legitimate state interest which can justify its intrusion into the personal and private life of the individual."

It appears that the Supreme Court found that the Texas statute could not even pass a rational basis test. If the statute cannot pass the least strict, most deferential test that can be applied to a law -- then the Texas statute most certainly could not pass the strict scrutiny test. When a same-sex marriage case finally finds its way to the United States Supreme Court, the Court might follow the example of the Massachusetts Supreme Court and find the ban on same sex marriages furthers no legitimate state interest.


From now on, when considering tests that are applied during the course of judicial review of a statute, remember the following key phrases:

STRICT SCRUTINY (Strictest Test) (suspect classes & fundamental rights): Compelling Interest / necessary and narrowly tailored means.

INTERMEDIATE (quasi-suspect classes): Important Interest / substantially related means

RATIONAL BASIS (Not Strict at all test--just about any law will survive judicial review test): Legitimate Interest / rationally related means
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 04:48 am
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I think that if you are arguing in favor of gay marriage because of legal issues, then as far as the government is concerned then you are entitled to the same rights as any other couple. But you have to accept the fact that you will probably never change the minds of bible-thumpers that what you are doing is wrong. It is a point of view that I disagree with strongly, but the fact remains.


Tough titties. There are lots of bigots who still think "racial mongrelization" is wrong. Too bad for them.
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Chrissee
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 05:00 am
Debra's arguments explain from a lawyer's view what I have espoused from a layperson's standpoint. i.e. that attempts to deny fundamental rights to any group of people is wrong and unconstitutional.
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 05:01 am
Thomas wrote:
Setanta wrote:
The full faith and credit clause does not oblige states to alter or make exceptions to their legal code to accomodate the legal codes of other states.


Thanks -- this makes sense. In this case, the obvious solution seems to be to create a nationally standardized 'civil union' status. By entering this status, the parties can confer to each other all rights and duties that are theirs to confer, but they could not impose any obligations on the rest of society, and they could not reap any benefits that come from the symbolism of marriage. Ideally, the state would get out of the business of defining who is married and who isn't, and would leave this question to social customs and religious institutions.

Would you be fine with that?


OMG, Thomas. Shocked
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fredjones
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 05:15 am
The cultural acceptance of homosexuals, which has already begun in much of the country, will not be complete for possibly some time.
If you won't settle for anything less than the word "marriage" aren't you guilty of all the crap the conservatives are spouting about using the courts to advance your own cultural perspective? I think your strongest arguments lie in the legal sense. As soon as you advocate using the Supreme Court to force people to *think* of homosexuals in the same way as heterosexuals, I think you are going too far too fast.
I speak as a person who genuinely wants homosexuals to be accepted, but I also believe that I understand the reality of the current situation.
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Debra Law
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 05:20 am
Thomas wrote:
Setanta wrote:
As a result of judicial review, regardless of the original wording and intent, legal codes often become far more reliable sources for tracing the history of institutions than mere encyclopedias--which, after, are intent upon selling themselves.

I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on this.

Come to think of it, I have another question about the "full faith and credit" clause. This clause may not cover civil unions specifically, but I assume it covers contracts in general. For example, suppose I live in New York, come to Columbus, buy your car, drive the car home to New York, and don't pay. In this scenario, our contract binds me by the law of New York state, and its courts would enforce that I uphold my part of our contract. Correct? Now, if marriage is no more than a contract, as some here have contended, it should be possible somehow to recreate most of it in the form and the language of an ordinary contract, and have its terms enforced under generic contract law. Why isn't that possible?


INCORRECT. You are confusing a "choice of law" issue with a "full faith and credit clause" issue.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 05:33 am
Debra_Law wrote:
But for fun, look at manner in which the Massachusetts Supreme Court reviewed its state marriage laws. The state argued that the marriage laws neither discriminated on the basis of gender nor infringed upon a fundamental right; but the Court said the argument didn't matter because the state marriage laws could not even pass the most deferential rational basis test.

Well, I disagree with the Supreme Court of Massachusetts' contention that it does not pass this test.

Debra_Law wrote:
You appear to be laboring under some confusion with respect to tests the United States Supreme Court applies when reviewing the constitutionality of laws.

I would never rule out the possibility of my laboring under some confusion; but in this case, what I was trying to say is that the same test, whether strict scrutiny, intermediate scrutiny, and rational basis, may in practice imply a different level of scrutiny for different courts. I'm sorry if my wording did not make that clear.

Debra_Law wrote:
It is possible for the United States Supreme Court to apply a test that is MORE strict than the rational basis test, but it impossible for the Court to apply a test that is "less strict" than the rational basis test (because no such test exists). Understand?

Yes. I expect that the federal Supreme Court will find it appropriate to apply intermediate scrutiny -- and that will find that the proscription of gay marriage passes that test, contrary to what the Massachusetts Supreme Court was contending.

Debra_Law wrote:
OMG, Thomas. Shocked

I take this to mean: "Oh my good, Thomas, I am shocked that any mortal could come up with such a divinely brilliant idea!" Don't worry, Debra, no need to address me as "god". I have to stay incognito, so it's better if you continue addressing me as "Thomas". The other inmates in my asylum agree.

Debra_Law wrote:
INCORRECT. You are confusing a "choice of law" issue with a "full faith and credit clause" issue.

Maybe so, but that doesn't address my point. If marriage is no more than a contract, why can't it be reproduced in form of an ordinary contract and enforced through plain vanilla contract law?
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blatham
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 09:13 am
SCoates wrote:
Setanta wrote:
When someone reads scripture, and says that it teaches them that homosexuality is bad, for whatever good intentions they may have, they are repeating and perpetuating a hateful and homophobic tradition.


It leads to that discrimination, but it is not the discrimintation itself. If their intentions are good, then until the point when their intentions are corrupted they have done nothing homophobic. If a belief that something is wrong is enough to deserve that label, then (as someone mentioned earlier) you stance is christianophobic--soley on the grounds that the christian position is wrong.

I fully acknowledge that calling homosexuality a sin has lead to homophobic behaviour, but it is not enough alone.


Let's take a look at this:
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It leads to that discrimination, but it is not the discrimintation itself.

Earlier on this thread, a number of quotations from church authorities were offered which held that whites were, as part of god's design, superior to other races. They used interpretations of scriptural passages to bolster this theological/moral position. Would you say that such statements/theological opinion are not discriminative, only lead to discrimination?
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If their intentions are good, then until the point when their intentions are corrupted they have done nothing homophobic.
Consider some young fellow in 1932 Deuseldorf who has been told by his loving parents through his life that Jewish people are untrustworthy and criminal by their very nature, and that the 'white stock' will be kinder, smarter, and more moral given that the Jewish genes be purified out of the genetic mix. Would you describe his belief as 'no thing racist'?

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If a belief that something is wrong is enough to deserve that label, then (as someone mentioned earlier) you stance is christianophobic--soley on the grounds that the christian position is wrong.
Of course, this isn't a 'christian position'. Christian churches are fracturing about the western world because many Christians disagree with a theological interpretation which stigmatizes homosexuals as sinners. In other words, many Christians themselves consider that such a position is homophobic. An odd conclusion to describe those christians as christianophobes.
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joefromchicago
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 12:47 pm
Thomas wrote:
If marriage is no more than a contract, why can't it be reproduced in form of an ordinary contract and enforced through plain vanilla contract law?

A state is not obliged by the Full Faith and Credit Clause to recognize contracts that, under its own laws, are illegal. So, for instance, if it is legal in Nevada for a woman to enter into a contract to provide services as a prostitute, she could still be arrested if she attempted to practice her trade in California, despite her valid Nevada contract. Since marriage is legal in every state, every state is obliged by the Full Faith and Credit Clause to recognize marriages validly entered into in other states. But "civil unions" or whatever else they may be called are not recognized in every state, so there would be no requirement for reciprocity among the states.
    ...even though states are required to recognize marriages formed elsewhere, they may not be required to recognize Vermont civil unions. That is because there is arguably an exception to the "full faith and credit" requirement that says states do not have to recognize the acts of other states if doing so would be inconsistent with the public policy of their own state.

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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 27 Apr, 2005 01:19 pm
joefromchicago wrote:
Since marriage is legal in every state, every state is obliged by the Full Faith and Credit Clause to recognize marriages validly entered into in other states. But "civil unions" or whatever else they may be called are not recognized in every state, so there would be no requirement for reciprocity among the states.

I see. Thanks, Joe.
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