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Wed 10 Nov, 2004 04:46 pm
i used to be really really happy with my gf, i still am actually, but lately we havent been seeing eachother and its been kinda getting me down...ive thought about ending it but i think id miss her if i did...idk what to do, stay in a relationship thats making me nuts/upset/happy or break up and probably miss her and want her back. Dont get me wrong when we are together i think she is very happy, im happy, we dont have any intimacy probs either
I'm not sure if this is similar, but I used to be very happy with a girl, but very miserable when she wasn't around, because I didn't trust her. And with good reason.
What is it about her that makes you want to break up?
she kinda gaffs me off when her friends (who she is very close with and i knew that before i asked her out) wanna do something
Is that all? Go ahead and unload.
Theres has to be something else. My girlfriend (or ex-girlfriend?, dont now that right now?!) does the same thing. Its normal I guess, I do the same thing sometimes. Just keep a balance and set priorities sometimes.
Though, if thats it and youre uncertain... the relationship aint filling you much.
Have you tried talking to ~her~ about this?