my gf and her friends

I would say go to the party, and be alone afterwards.

16, got curfews lol so that cant work

Oops...I still say go to the party, it will make her happy, and you can reschedule your alone time, and she'll be more happy that you appreciate her friends. At 16, at least from what I remember, friends are really important.

Then find a cozy place for the two of you at the party.

Surely her/your friends would understand you missing ONE party. It's not like there aren't going to be a hundred more on the horizon. Compromise with your girlfriend. This week we'll spend alone, next week we'll do the party thing. Neither of you need to make up excuses to your friends. Just say you had something else you had to do and couldn't make it. Period. Your true friends will understand and those that don't can piss off. I know at 16 it is hugely important to want to be with your friends and be part of that whole cool scene, but hey...branch off a bit. Step to the beat of your own drummer once in awhile and let what YOU want to do dictate your actions now and then instead of just going along with the crowd all the time. Besides, making some of your own decisions at this age means you are growing up!

did i add that they are so close that i sometimes think they are closet lesbians....they are always around...so unless we are at least 1 mile away from them, we arent alone lol

Ack! Bah! Ppbbhhtt! How does SHE feel about wanting some alone time with YOU? If she wants some of that, turn off the cell phones even and make it happen!

For sure go to that party and get your GF, her friend, and you alone somewhere and let the fun begin!

ironically, i think i may be very pissed at her if i found out she was lesbian...wtf was i for 4 years lol