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Sun 16 Apr, 2017 01:31 am
I have a crush on a receptionist. she is very friendly and nice. I sparked casual conversations here and there. one day i had to print a 60 pages documents so I asked her do you know any printing shops nearby. she offered me to print the documents and while its printing she asked me what is it for , how is it living in the US did you like it? when I pulled off my wallet to pay her she said you dont have to worry its free and I said Its free! she said yeah its free only this time with a smile on her face. as far as I know they do charge for printing. she looks me in the eye most of the times but sometimes she can't maintain eye contact. I once asked her if she knows any piano schools nearby for a 27-28 age group and that made her think why I asked for that specific age group since I look younger than my age. so the next day she asked her: do you work? me: no I am doing my masters why are you asking is it because i look younger than my age her: how old are you? me: 28 her: damn you dont look 28 you look younger one day I wanted to test the waters so when leaving the reception area I said to her " good night bella ( beautiful in Italian)" she said same to you. I really wanted to see if she will ignore me after my compliment. she is still the same and I didn't sense any change like avoiding eye contact or any sort of alienation. yesterday as usual I made an excuse to talk to her. I asked her for information that can be easily found in the internet. she said " dont you have computer? i was like yes I do have a computer and she said " then?" and she was friendly afterwards. when leaving I asked her for her name. she said it to me. after an hour I left my room and I forgot my key inside so I went down and asked her if she can open the room for me since I left my key inside. when going up she asked me " do you have lots of assignments these days?" I was like yeah. I asked one of the residents and he confirmed that she is taken. is she interested? how to win her heart?
@petergarida,
She's not interested. Her passive responses indicate that she wishes you would go away. Remember, she is WORKING, she HAS to be friendly and polite and sit there. You are simply taking advantage of the fact that she is a captive audience. Go work on women that aren't glued behind a desk.