Why does he try and hide it?

I've read a few posts that are similar to mine. My husband and I have been married a little over a year, but all together 6 years. OK, You walk in the room, he minimizes the screen, but the minute you walk out, you hear the click of the mouse and you know he's back at it. What's worse is when his friends come over and the whispering starts. The other night I heard my husband say to his friend, "I'm jealous" and his friend said "EEEwwwww no dude that's gross, why be jealous" and my husband said "no dude, I'm jealous because he's with her." What the f---! Do I let it go? I've worked with men my whole life and I've heard some things that most women would find offensive, but I'm used to it. This is coming from my husband. And it's happening more frequently than I'd like it to.

Is this a mid-life crisis? I'm running a business for the first time in my life, and there are many times when I need an ear to bend, or a back rub every now and then. But the computer takes a precidense over me.

I think he could do better things with his time, like things to do with me.
Because my libido doesn't match his, is his retreat going to internet porn?

I have some sexy pictures of me on a rated website, and my ratings fluctuate between 7 and 8, so I know I'm not unattractive, but is that just his raging libido? He's 39, I'm 30. We have a very sexual intimacy, so if it's not porn on the internet, it's sex. Guess I shouldn't complain.

If I'm being stupid, please tell me to shut up, or atleast let me know if my thinking is halfway rational.