Willow is right. But since you were so dismissive of what he/she had to say...I must remind you that he/she could have answered your question more succinctly.
Lemme try:
Quote:DOES MY HUSBAND LOVE ME OR PORN...?
Possibly both...but if it is one or the other...porn wins!
Quote:...HOW CAN I TELL?"
You already know...or you wouldn't have posted this question.
Couple of other things you should consider:
1) If you confront him on this...he will lie and deny in order to make you feel better.
2) You will never find a replacement guy who is appreciably otherwise! Guys love porn...and that is why it is fast becoming a trillion dollar industry. That...and the fact that women who are self-assured are also getting into it.
3) Used reasonably...(and that is different for everyone)...porn is more likely to enhance a couple's sex life than to injure it. If you doubt this...try asking him to buy or rent a few porn videos so you can watch them with him!